Having got married, a girl can breathe a sigh of relief, relax and say out loud or to herself: "Finally, he's mine!" But in vain. Men don't like to be treated like property.
A woman can hurry up and choose the wrong companion that she dreamed of
The main mistake a woman can make when getting married is to marry the wrong man, whom she has been waiting for all her life. Is it worth it to immediately run to the registry office if a man is rich, in bed turned out to be an amazing lover, and offers a "hand and heart"? Maybe it's worth living with him in a civil marriage in order to get to know him better? If the “check” is carried out and the “common law” husband is suitable for living together, a woman can make a number of mistakes when she is already a wife.
Treating the husband as property
The wedding is over, the first wonderful wedding night has passed, the marriage stamp is in the passport. Ahead is a happy long life with a beloved man. And the wife begins to relax, sometimes not in a very good way. She believes that since her husband belongs to her, then he should live as she thinks is right: have sex at a certain time, always bring her breakfast in bed, dress as she advises.
And at the same time he forgets that he is not dealing with a toy, but with a living person who has lived 20, 30 or more years on his own before it. That he has his own ideas about life in general, and about marriage in particular.
Attempts to remake it for "myself"
The wife begins to take offense, to be capricious and demand from her husband to fulfill his desires. A man can concede once or twice, and then he will start to get annoyed and object. Considering that the husband is not quite properly brought up, the wife will try to remake him. So that he quit smoking, never drank, among friends was the "soul of the company" and also - indifferent to football.
No fishing or football
When a wife does not let her beloved go fishing or football with friends, she does not even suspect that she is encroaching on the most sacred thing in her man's life: the right to live her own life. To spend time the way he used to do it sometimes.
Irrepressible jealousy
And the wife can start to constantly monitor her own husband. View his correspondence, the list of contacts in the phone book, call him every minute when he is not at home. This behavior will tire even the most loving person.
But the apogee of such a mistake is the wife's domestic tantrum. My husband came home from work, hungry, take off his clothes and relax. But his wife begins to ask from the doorway why he was gone for so long, why he is so silent and does not enjoy meeting her, demanding a detailed account of who he spent today. And if the hungry spouse reminds him of dinner, throw him a tantrum.
Woman stops looking after herself at home
She just thinks that now it is not necessary to do this. After all, the wedding took place, the husband is here, next to him. Will not go anywhere. You can walk at home and in a dressing gown, forget about a pedicure. But in vain. If a woman truly loves a man, she is afraid of losing him. And therefore, every day he lives with his beloved, as if it were the last day. Protects him, admires him, dresses as he loves.
She constantly reproaches her husband for a small salary
Another serious mistake a wife can make is to reproach her husband for not earning enough money. There are many reasons why a spouse is unable to immediately earn enough money for a comfortable life. If a man is trying to find himself, constantly trying to "get to the top", then there is nothing more offensive at this moment than the reproaches of his wife.
