Young children need a wide range of emotions for normal mental development, which is influenced by a number of external factors, both positive and negative. And since the baby's world is, first of all, parents, they are responsible for all the emotions that the baby experiences.
Unfortunately, not all parents try to improve themselves in raising a child. As a result, a grown-up baby, for whom there are practically no prohibitions, gets complete freedom of action and begins to subordinate his parents in his whims.
The desire of parents to place him at the center of the family will have a detrimental effect on the child's mental development. Such children grow up to be egoists who do not understand the inner world of another.
What mistakes can parents make when raising a future member of society?
- The first mistake is the desire to take care of and protect the child from everything. Such moms and dads rush headlong to the child at the first sounds of crying, often try to feed a lot, fearing that he is malnourished. In autumn and winter, they unnecessarily wrap themselves in warm clothes, take upon themselves the execution of many tasks that the child has long been able (and should) to do himself. In the future, such parents will decide who he will be and who he will marry. What is the result? A weak-willed, weak whiner or, conversely, an aggressive personality grows up. Both that, and another - a gap in education.
- The second mistake is dislike. The reason for this attitude towards their own children can be the youth and immaturity of parents in matters of upbringing, unwanted pregnancy, as well as the birth of children with various pathologies. In such cases, the baby separates from everyone, closes in on himself, feels himself superfluous in the family.
- The third mistake is the Spartan upbringing. Mega-demanding parents, numerous prohibitions erect a huge wall between children and their parents, which is not always possible to overcome.
- The fourth problem is the parents' inability to forgive pranks. The punishment that follows the bad deed does not completely solve the problem. The kid is supposedly forgiven, but at the first opportunity they remember and begin to reproach. It must be remembered that the age of the child must be taken into account when choosing a punishment.
The environment in which children grow up should be emotionally saturated (in moderation), exclude irritants (drunkenness, alcoholism of parents, constant scandals) and be based on friendship, respect and love.
