A person's character is formed from childhood under the influence of a number of factors. As a rule, it finally develops in adolescence. There are people of weak character, absurd; some have a changeable character.
What are the main signs of a changeable character
“Weak-tempered” - this is how they say about a timid, insecure person, from whom an excellent performer can emerge, but an organizer will never succeed. "Foolish character" - such a description is given to quarrelsome, scandalous people. "Iron character" - here everything is clear without explanation, that is, these are people with iron nerves. The list goes on and on. But it also happens that a person's character is changeable.
A person's behavior can never be predicted with 100% probability, because it depends not only on his character, but also on many other circumstances. For example, even decisive, domineering people can become confused when suddenly faced with a dangerous situation. Quiet, weak-willed (that is, the classic "follower"), on the contrary, are able to take the initiative, show quick reaction and courage. But, as a rule, the behavior of a particular person is still quite predictable. Except when he has a fickle character. Then it is simply impossible to predict how he will behave.
The mood of such a person can change seven times a day. He is able to get irritated for the most insignificant reason, he is not happy with what was usually pleasant. And vice versa. Periods of inspiration, when he is literally able to “move mountains”, can suddenly be replaced by periods of despondency and laziness.
A person with a changeable character is practically unable to do the same work every day, especially one that requires constant concentration, attention, the more strictly follow instructions and instructions. For him, it is akin to torture. Therefore, such people, as a rule, try to realize themselves in creative professions, where there are no strict mandatory standards. There are also many freelancers among them, that is, people who work on a free schedule, including remotely, using the Internet.
What to do if a loved one has a changeable character
Having a partner with a person with a fickle personality is not an easy test. But even in this case, a strong long-term relationship is possible. The main thing is that the other partner chooses the correct tactics of behavior, either by learning to simply not pay attention to the changes in the mood of a loved one (they say, this is inevitable, you need to reconcile), or delicately but firmly "neutralizing" them. Otherwise, the matter can quickly reach the end of the relationship.
