The relationship between a man and a woman is not an easy topic. Its relevance has been tested for centuries, but no matter how much is written and said, the human brain to this day does not get tired of giving reasoning about it. Perhaps, no matter how wide the visible spectrum of relations between the sexes, everything is love.
Instructions
Step 1
"I love my boyfriend. And it's very nice to feel" - to such thoughts, and even more so to words, you need to go a long way. They designate the most responsible and at the same time anxious feeling. Life is a series of events, emotions, moods. Of course, very different.
No matter how flexible a person is, he lives in a society that is built on a competitive environment. Its influence cannot but be transferred to everyday life, where mini conflicts, clashes, quarrels and all kinds of negative situations create nervousness and general tension. In sum, they have a strong influence on the strength of the bond between people, on their feelings for each other. Therefore, relationships are a lot of work, and the most important condition for the happiness of two is mutual acceptance. If you fell in love, then you accepted what you are: the character, behavior model and life position of your beloved.
Do not try to remake the person who has become close to you later. Why? This will cause a number of counter-reproaches based on the fact that proposals for adjusting his character have not been received before, and will increase mutual indignation. Like, at first I liked everything, but now what has changed?
Make comments and express emotions more carefully, do not nag if you do not want to share your love with someone else. Better remember how attractive your companion is, and what joy he brought into your life.
Step 2
The idea that perspicacity will help a person in many ways to avoid all sorts of conflicts flows smoothly from the conversation about mutual acceptance. This quality, built on a deep analysis of one's own actions and the actions of others, can also be called worldly wisdom. That is, people who have developed it in themselves have the ability to predict the future, relying on the present.
The topic of my article is relationships, a topic in which there can be no talk of any extrasensory perception. It's just that everyone who wants to be happy for a long time, and not for a moment, must pay attention not only to the best, but also to the worst qualities and traits of their partner. And to think whether the union of two hearts is strong, is it long enough that, turning a blind eye to some contradictions or differences, go hand in hand through life towards a common dream and aspirations? Or is there a fundamental disagreement in lifestyles, goals, so far buried under a flurry of feelings, but mentioned in conflicts?
Step 3
In general, perhaps, the secret of happiness lies in the answer to the question posed to oneself. As the saying goes, if you really want to, you can fly into space. So in many respects and in relationships: how you imagine them, as well as what you allow in relation to yourself, it will work out. This means that our happiness is in our hands.
