The first year of marriage is very difficult. And this is quite natural. Family experience is not a gift at a wedding: it is acquired from year to year. You have to learn and learn many new things that were previously unknown. But before learning new things, it is worth getting advice and following them.
Council number 1. Learn to consult. Before deciding any question regarding your married life, be sure to consult with your spouse. Don't ask your friends or parents for advice. When discussing your family issues, adhere to these simple rules: Explain how you want to act in this situation; make your words sound like a proposal, not a firm decision; be sure to ask the second opinion, and also do not forget to respect his decision; do not make any decisions "on the sly"; always communicate your decision.
Tip # 2. Learn to be tactful. It is possible that you are used to sticking to your point of view and never change it, because it was laid in you during your upbringing from childhood. But this is wrong: you should learn flexibility and tact. Of course, no one needs your perseverance and is inappropriate, and to be tactful is to be able to behave delicately in any difficult and insoluble situation, without hurting others. If you begin to feel that your loved one is beginning to annoy and enrage you, just imagine your boss in his place. After all, with him you will not allow yourself to raise your voice and speak rude words. Your companion deserves respect and tact on your part, even if he is wrong about something.
Council number 3. Difficulties. At the beginning of your life together, the husband may be a little clumsy to be the head of the family, and the wife is sometimes not always tactful. Be tactful with each other, even if one of you is wrong and wants to make a mistake. It will take some time to learn everything and continue not to make mistakes. If you solve any issues together, then solve them, and do not try to correct the character of the other. Do not show each other's shortcomings, it is better to pay attention to yourself.
It is very difficult to save your marriage, but to destroy it is quite simple. Naturally, you have to fall and rise more than once, but, as you know, everyone makes mistakes and learns from them. It will take a little time - and you will learn everything (especially if you feel the support of each other). Also, do not lose your sense of humor, because you can joke about some of your mistakes together.
