People are born with their own individual abilities. Whether a person is able to realize himself directly depends on his feelings of his own worth and significance. You need to start realizing your abilities from childhood. And parents should help their child and create an environment conducive to the development of talents, independence and responsibility.
Instructions
Step 1
Do not do his work for the child - let him learn to independently find solutions in accordance with his individual abilities. Very often, parents strive to teach the kid, suggest how to do a particular task. As a result, they immediately put it in a certain frame. Let your child think, and he will most likely find his own solution.
Step 2
Encourage your child to be independent. Leave it to yourself, and watch for yourself. If the child is bored, do not rush to entertain him with some kind of entertainment - let him come up with a game on his own. So your child will learn to fantasize, invent, invent.
Step 3
Let your child make mistakes. Did your kid assemble the puzzle or model incorrectly from the construction set? Do not interfere, give him the opportunity to figure it out, to find the right solution himself. In adulthood, everyone makes mistakes, however, learning not to give up and act independently in a difficult situation, your child will become more successful than many.
Step 4
Praise your child for taking the initiative. Your child decided to sew on a button, but got tangled up in the threads? Praise him for wanting to do it on his own. Praise is very important for a little person, they help him to feel his own importance. And very soon the child will want to receive praise again.
Step 5
From time to time, take your child out of the comfort zone - new conditions will better help him discover and realize his abilities. For example, go on a hike with him, and at a halt, instruct the kid to make sandwiches himself. Of course, you will do this faster and more accurately, however, by waiting a little, you will give your child a chance to learn that he, too, can do a lot on his own. Any non-standard situations for a little man give him a tremendous impetus in the development of thinking and abilities.
Step 6
Give your child the opportunity to make decisions. Let him decide for himself whether he should go to the kindergarten in a sweater or in a T-shirt, what he will take for a walk - a ball or a scooter. So the baby will feel responsible for his own decisions and will take a more serious approach to many life issues.
Step 7
Introduce your son or daughter to adult problems. The sooner he understands the structure of society, the faster he will learn to apply his abilities in life. For example, offer him a limited budget and the ability to purchase food for dinner. This will help the child understand the value of money and the need to save.
Step 8
Take the child seriously, do not laugh at his judgments and thoughts. Peer-to-peer dialogue will give your little one a sense of confidence that they are being taken seriously. Respect your child's personality and they will trust you completely. It is this kind of home environment that allows you to grow a personality who successfully realizes his abilities in adulthood.
