It is believed that an adult is an already established personality, it cannot be changed, it is better to get used to other people's peculiarities than to try to remake. But if we are talking about a man, and by features we mean habits, then upbringing is quite acceptable.
Instructions
Step 1
Do not allow phrases that the man was badly brought up, about his inability to adapt in everyday life. Otherwise, the young man will want to run away. The topic of children's upbringing, the general cultural level is perceived painfully, as well as the topic of sexual abilities. Therefore, do not say anything about such things, especially in a dismissive tone. Find a compromise and act slowly, so you can more easily find what you want.
Step 2
Laugh at the bad. For example, did the man save up a library, or did the cups stick to the table after you were away for a week? One should laugh at these things good-naturedly, very merrily. Positive criticism affects young people more effectively than criticism. In addition, this way you will not turn into a fury and remain in the form of a sweet friend.
Step 3
Praise more often. It is enough for a boy to say once that he is smart and he will do what he was thanked for almost every day. Grown men behave the same way. Therefore, their habits can be adjusted. A not particularly emotional partner can be made gentle by regularly telling him how he can cheer up. Many qualities are manifested under the influence of the expectation mechanism, you rely on certain behavior, reinforce the behavior with positive emotions and get a stable habit.
Step 4
Instill a slight sense of inferiority. Tell him that there is still something to strive for. From time to time, without envy or sadness, talk about other males in a favorable perspective. Men hate being compared to someone. They will endure Alain Delon, but the neighbor on the site will make you think. A slight feeling of inferiority, which does not reduce overall self-esteem, is a powerful developmental factor.
Step 5
Be direct. Men do not tolerate hints, this leads to conflicts. Men do not distinguish intonation, facial expressions that women can portray, so sometimes they need to speak everything in plain text. They love to be asked, asking allows them to make a choice. And consider him yours.
Step 6
Apply punishments. It is sometimes helpful to slam the door or cry, but you shouldn’t do it often. This behavior will help to throw out negative emotions and show how important to you what you are talking about. For men, a quarrel is not an ordinary phenomenon. In their view, if a woman swears, then there is a reason. And they draw conclusions.
Step 7
Think good, men are arranged differently, they just live and rejoice. Women are constantly inclined to seek the ideal, are critical. Even in those moments when your partner seems to be acting disgusting, think about the positive moments in your relationship. Do not stop loving him even like that. Because love is the basis of upbringing, it makes everyone better.
