Finding yourself in an unfamiliar company, do you feel embarrassed and do not know where to start a conversation? The ability to quickly find a common language with people, feel confident in an unfamiliar environment and attract attention can be learned - and you will become a welcome guest at any party.
Instructions
Step 1
Be in character
Self-confidence starts with working on your own reflection in the mirror. You don't have to wear an evening gown or evening dress to feel attractive, but you do have to look neat and tidy. Clean hair, neat manicure, ironed clothes - a successful look starts with little things. Think in advance what you will wear for the holiday, what accessories you will choose. Do not forget that the outfit should be not only beautiful, but also comfortable. After all, constantly straightening the folds, straightening the fallen straps and trying to pull the hem, you can hardly concentrate on rest.
Step 2
Be natural
When starting out with new acquaintances, avoid being overly sweet and pretending to be kind. Trying to "build bridges" with people absolutely uninteresting to you, you risk your own reputation. Insincerity in communication is easy to see with the naked eye, and this is repulsive. Instead of desperately trying to reach out to the first group of people you come across, look for really interesting people to talk to.
Step 3
Be nice
The drooping corners of the lips, the eyes looking at the floor, the arms crossed on the chest - would anyone dare to approach such a beech? Smiling is the best way to win people over to you, as well as a non-verbal invitation to communicate. After all, a cheerful, optimistic person is always open to new things. Tune in to the positive! Remember that you have come to rest.
Step 4
be careful
Do not forget about the rules of communication. For example, avoid interrupting the speaker to share your thoughts and thoughts on what was being said. Listen to the end, or better - ask a couple of clarifying questions. Finding such a grateful listener is not easy, so you will definitely be able to win the favor of the interlocutor. If your opinions do not agree, you should not turn the conversation into a loud skirmish, the course of which everyone present can follow. Respect your opponent's point of view and his right to think differently from you.
Step 5
Be on fire!
Take an active part in contests, quizzes and games. This is the best way to meet other guests. Being in the same team, it is much easier to go straight to direct communication, because there is no need to painfully come up with a topic for conversation. And at the end of the competition, you can discuss your own impressions and emotions.
