Any woman seeking to arrange her personal life wants to know more about the man she liked. This is completely understandable and natural! Is he a reliable person, is he serious, what are his tastes, hobbies, character, advantages and disadvantages. But how can you find out? It is somehow embarrassing to ask directly, and where is the guarantee that he will answer completely sincerely, frankly? Many people tend to exaggerate their strengths and downplay their shortcomings, this is also natural and understandable. Therefore, a woman will have to act in a roundabout way.
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, remember the wise saying: "Nature has given a person two ears and only one mouth for a reason!" In other words, overcome the age-old female habit of talkativeness. Let the man talk, and you mostly listen, absorb information and analyze it, draw conclusions.
Step 2
How do you get him to talk? This is not difficult at all in most cases. Even a taciturn, shy person can magically transform if he suddenly discovers that next to him is an attentive, genuinely interested listener. Where does eloquence come from! There is little to do: to become just such a listener for him.
Step 3
Look at him carefully, nod from time to time, ask clarifying questions (try to keep them "on the case", and not out of place). Say with all your appearance: "It's so good that I met such an intelligent, outstanding person!" Believe me, not only the "weaker sex" is susceptible to flattery and signs of attention.
Step 4
Well, how to find out about the most important things: how seriously does he take family life, what views on the role of men and women in the family does he adhere to, is he ready to become a father and be responsible for children? The best way: as if by accident, by chance, to direct the conversation in the right direction! Remember Agatha Christie's famous book Ten Little Indians. The insidious Judge Wargrave, looking for victims for his planned crime, literally everywhere started a conversation on the same topic: can a person who committed a murder escape punishment? And he successfully received the necessary information from a variety of people.
Step 5
Since your goal is much more harmless and noble than that of an insidious lawyer, you can adopt his method without the slightest remorse. Say the magic phrase: "But one of my friends …" and tell a real or fictional compassionate story. For example, about a naive woman who became a victim of a resort gigolo, who swore that he loved her, promised to marry her, and as a result disappeared, extracting all the money from her. A man's reaction will tell you a lot. At the slightest hint of mocking cynicism like: "Well done, he warmed up the woman well!", Or even when stating the fact: "It's her own fault, you don't have to be a fool!", Think: do you need such a person?
