Girls very often in the process of a relationship with a man the question arises: "Why doesn't a loved one give gifts?" Maybe he doesn't appreciate your attitude towards him, or you are somehow behaving differently? Or does the man think that he has already achieved you, the bouquet-candy period is over? Or maybe he's just greedy? What needs to be done to get a man to give gifts?
Necessary
- - Wishlist (list of desired gifts);
- - a gift for a man.
Instructions
Step 1
Think about why men give gifts to their loved ones. They probably want to please them, make them feel good. Do not take a gift as the ultimate manifestation of love on the part of a man.
Step 2
When a man asks what to get you, avoid ambiguous, long answers. Express your thoughts clearly and concisely, otherwise you will not avoid disappointment.
Step 3
Don't say "you have to." The commanding tone will not be appropriate here, men have a negative attitude towards this. In this case, you may be left without a gift at all. Be smarter, the approach should be softer.
Step 4
Set an example: dream up and choose a gift that suits your loved one’s taste so that he can appreciate your concern. Do not seek to surprise a man if he is provided with an expensive present. Present him with a trinket that can evoke pleasant emotions.
Step 5
Hint. Improve this art constantly. Tell your man from time to time about the cute things you come across in the store. Describe their merits, and do not forget to say that someday you will definitely purchase some thing you like.
Step 6
Speak more specifically, because a man may not remember the name of a particular store. But still try to convey this gently to him.
Step 7
Be straightforward if all of the above methods have failed. A man may take this as a sign of trust or care, it is quite possible that he simply does not know what to give, and racks his head over this before every holiday or significant event.
Step 8
If a man is against such unambiguity, and wants to have free choice, make a so-called "wish list". Indicate in it those not a few things that you would like to have.
Step 9
If your man can't spend a lot of money on a gift, talk to him about modest presentations - a stuffed toy, book, or vase. Loved disappeared seriously and for a long time? Then most likely he is not poor, but simply stingy.
Step 10
Enjoy even the simplest gifts. After all, love is the ability to share a piece of your world with another person.
