If your young man does not even give you flowers, do not rush to accuse him of stinginess or selfishness. It is possible that he simply has not yet found that rare and fragrant bud that would be worthy of you.
Instructions
Step 1
If you are dating a young man for a short time, and he has not yet made you a single gift, do not force events. You are still at that stage of the relationship when people are looking at each other, trying to figure out what kind of person is in front of them. Perhaps he just has not yet understood what can be given to you in order to please you.
Step 2
If your relationship has been going on for more than a month, and you still can only dream of presentations from your beloved, try first to hint to him that you would be immensely happy if he presented you with something other than a loving one. hearts. Just in no case refer to friends and acquaintances, "who have, but I do not." This indicates spiritual immaturity, in other words, whims.
Step 3
On a date, choose for leisurely walks those places where there are flower shops or stalls (especially courageous ladies can, of course, direct the footsteps of their beloved to the area of jewelry stores). It is possible that he will be attracted by the scent of fresh bouquets or the shine of jewelry, and he will not be able to resist the purchase. Well, if he has a stuffy nose or poor eyesight, you should think about whether these ailments will also affect the healthy atmosphere of your relationship.
Step 4
At the next meeting with him, try to look sad and mysterious. If his vision problems are still not of an alleged total nature, then he will certainly ask you what happened to you. Don't answer right away, but don't take the pause too long. Tell him what you are dreaming of, such as a new dress or jewelry. Be sure to mention what benefits he personally "shine" from this acquisition. For example, tell me how desperately all his friends will envy him when he comes to a party with you, so beautiful and unique, thanks to his efforts.
Step 5
If your young man cannot afford serious expenses yet, try to talk to him about modest gifts: a vase, a soft toy, a book, etc. the fact that he is not so much poor as stingy.
Step 6
Rejoice at even the simplest trinket that your young man handed you to the sound of fanfare or to the hubbub of a student cafe. After all, love is, first of all, the ability to share with another person some part of your world. And even a cheap keychain lying in his palm outstretched to you will keep the warmth of his soul for a long time.
