A considerable number of girls regularly receive various gifts from their men: from small things to more expensive ones. But there is also a type of women to whom the male representatives are in no hurry to present a bunch of flowers or a nice gift. Why is this happening?
You do not hint to the man about your preferences, or you yourself do not know what you want
This situation arises if your man is the type of practical people who do not consider it necessary to spend money on various trinkets, from which there is no benefit. This man will not look for a gift by the nature of the person, or try to arrange a surprise for him. He will just try to find out from his beloved what she needs to give. And to answer this question with the phrase “I don’t know” is considered a huge mistake. If a man hears such an answer, he will either find some practical thing for you, such as a saucepan, or he will decide that you really do not need anything and, therefore, will not give anything.
What to do? Just tell your loved one directly what you want to receive as a gift. Think it's unromantic? Is it romantic to be left without a gift?
Taking gifts for granted
It also happens that you yourself are to blame for the fact that your boyfriend stopped giving you gifts. Perhaps you constantly showed your dissatisfaction with the presented gifts, or maybe you behaved too indifferently when receiving a gift. But it's not so easy for a man to choose something memorable for you! You have to figure out what to buy, when to buy, how much it costs. And he usually anticipates in advance how happy you will be. And if he does not see sincere joy in your eyes, then he is unlikely to want to be disappointed again. Therefore, the more admiration and gratitude, the higher the chances that the man will want to please you again.
You yourself do not make gifts for your soul mate
Not all males can surprise with gifts, but most learn to do it from girls who show how to do it. If you have never given anything to a young man, then by doing so you show that it is not so important. There are girls who believe that giving gifts is the responsibility of men. However, who will enjoy the "one-sided game", because it shows that you do not value your partner as much as he appreciates you. Men who do not like to receive gifts can be counted on one hand. Usually, everyone is pleased to feel that they are appreciated and loved.
Natural greed
This phenomenon can be attributed to the type of diagnosis. It is almost impossible to change a greedy person. However, here you can try to change the situation at least a little. You just need to prove that the gift you want will benefit him too. If you have a beautiful necklace around your neck, then everyone around you will see what a wealthy and generous gentleman you have. In general, you need to try to find an approach and prove that a beautiful and well-groomed girl is a reflection of a loving and generous man.
