People with different temperaments, characters and habits can coexist quite wonderfully side by side, in the same house or even in the same room. Moreover, they can complement each other, resulting in complete harmony.
Instructions
Step 1
First, learn to respect the other person. In order for you to acquire such a skill, you first need to learn to respect yourself, that is, to love and accept yourself for who you are, including all the advantages and disadvantages. Each person has a certain value. Ask yourself, "What do I respect about this person?" This way you can see its true value.
Step 2
Allow yourself to be yourself and others to be different. Don't try to remake a person. All the main character traits are laid in the first 5 years of life, so you are a little late with this. Let a person read what he loves, watch the films that he likes, communicate with those people to whom he is drawn, eat the food that suits his tastes. Allow the partner who lives next to you to do what he wants, and do what you want yourself. After all, you don't have to have the same tastes, addictions, and habits.
Step 3
Do not scandal, do not swear or shout. If your soul mate does not act like you, and loves not what you love, this is not a reason to throw a tantrum. All people are individual in their own way, there is no truth, a common denominator for everyone. Therefore, do not try to prove your innocence to a person who is no less right than you. So you will only waste your energy while you could use it for something more valuable, for example, self-education.
Step 4
Know how to negotiate. If you want to watch a movie and your partner wants to read a book, then try talking to him about it. It may be easy for you to put on your headphones, or he may wish to leave for another room. If he does not have such an opportunity, then try to agree with him about what you will be doing in the near future. Suggest, for example, watching a movie first and then reading, or vice versa. The art of finding compromises saved peoples from many wars.
