How to behave correctly in the status of a second wife? What if my husband has children from his first marriage?
Instructions
Step 1
A woman needs to be prepared for the fact that a man will constantly be in contact with his first wife and children. The man will try to visit the family on all holidays, try to pay attention, help and support the first family. Consider the fact that there will be days when, instead of spending it with you, a man will go for a walk with the children. Do not interfere with this. Encourage him to interact with children. Your positive attitude will bring you closer to your husband and strengthen your marriage.
Step 2
Do not cheat yourself, that the husband often communicates with his first wife, do not allow the thought. That they would have a desire to converge again, maybe for the sake of the children. Such ideas can drive yourself crazy, this will cause conflicts in your family. Drive these thoughts away, the man is next to you, he chose you and the main task of the woman is to support his desire to be together, to confirm every time that the man made the right choice, to provide comfort in the relationship. Jealousy, constant reproaches and lamentations quickly tire men. Be patient and confident.
Step 3
Give the man relative leeway with regard to his children. Help him cope with the double workload. Surely a tense situation reigns in the first family, so support your husband, help him through this crisis, and establish normal communication with children. Your man will appreciate it. He will be in every possible way grateful to you for your support, he will strive to make you happy.
Step 4
The correct distribution of family finances should help avoid conflict situations and various troubles. Your spouse will allocate a certain amount of money for his children, this only speaks of his decency, ability to take care, to be responsible. Don't hinder it. It is enough together, to correctly distribute the family budget.
Step 5
Accept and come to terms with your husband's past. The ex-wife is the past, you are the future. You should not compare yourself with her, compete who is better, do not try to humiliate her in front of her husband, showing a negative attitude. Instead, focus all your attention and energy on maintaining and developing your relationship with your spouse. Give attention and love to each other, make joint plans, spend time together, do not let your family relationship darken.
