Sometimes romances "on the side" lead to unexpected consequences: a woman becomes pregnant from another man, not knowing how to tell her husband or boyfriend about it. There are several ways out of this situation.
Instructions
Step 1
The onset of pregnancy is a very important moment in a woman's life, therefore, first of all, you must determine which man you want to stay with - the father of the child or the one with whom you met before the occurrence of this situation. Please note that your man will hardly be happy that you not only had an affair on the side, that is, you cheated on him, but the future child will not be from him. In most cases, this leads to a breakdown in the relationship, so you should be prepared for the fact that your husband or boyfriend will not forgive you for what you did.
Step 2
Think well how much your husband or boyfriend values you and whether he is able to forgive you even for such a serious betrayal of him. In some cases, a beloved woman is the only meaning of life for a man, therefore, despite all the difficulties, he can find the strength to come to terms with the situation and try to resolve the conflict peacefully. If you are sure that your man truly loves you, just talk to him seriously. Say that you regret what you did and want to keep your relationship, and take responsibility for raising your unborn child. In this case, there is a small chance that the man will be able to forgive you.
Step 3
The important thing is under what circumstances you get pregnant. For example, there are cases when a woman became a victim of violence, but did not admit it to her husband. However, in the end it turned out that intimacy with another man led to pregnancy. In this situation, you should definitely tell your husband or boyfriend how it all happened. If you are not guilty of what you have done, a loving man will enter your position and try to resolve the situation peacefully.
Step 4
Discuss further options with your man. Perhaps he will not want to leave or raise someone else's child in the future. In this case, you can seek medical advice and, if time permits, terminate the pregnancy. However, remember that this is a dangerous procedure for the female body, which can lead to irreparable consequences. Alternatively, talk to the man who got pregnant. Offer him to raise the child on his own in the future without your participation. However, men rarely agree to take on such responsibility, and the child will need a mother one way or another. Therefore, if you yourself are to blame for the onset of pregnancy, try to come to terms with this and be prepared for the fact that the once beloved man will not forgive betrayal, and you will have to stay with the father of the unborn child or raise the baby on your own.
