The situation when it is simply scary to enter the nursery is familiar to almost all parents. At the same time, in the rest of the rooms, cleanliness can be almost perfect. Some parents clutch at the heart, others - for a rag and vacuum cleaner. Meanwhile, even a younger preschooler can keep track of their belongings. But how to make him do it?
Necessary
Fairy tales of K. Chukovsky "Moidodyr" and "Fedorino grief"
Instructions
Step 1
It is necessary to start teaching the child to order not even from preschool, but from an early age. A one and a half year old baby with the greatest pleasure helps adults, it is very interesting for him. True, he collects cubes and arranges toys very slowly. Be patient and let him finish cleaning himself. Don't forget to praise your helper.
Step 2
Distribute household chores. The kid should know from the very beginning that toys, socks, tights are his concern. Teach him to fold his clothes neatly. It is unlikely that he will succeed right away. But do not shift things with him. Wait until the child falls asleep, and then fix everything, as teachers usually do in kindergarten.
Step 3
It is necessary to ensure that the child feels the discomfort of the mess. Explain to your child that things can take offense if they are not treated well. Toys will scatter and socks will be lost. The preschooler can be told that no one will clean up anything instead. Let everything remain as it is. It may happen that the young slob will turn a deaf ear to your words. Then it's time to act. When he falls asleep, take your favorite toy out of sight, which the baby will definitely miss in the morning. Explain that the bunny is tired of the mess and has promised to return as soon as the room is clean. You can rest assured that in half an hour all the toys will be in place. Put the hare back in place solemnly.
Step 4
If the child immediately forgot about the troubles and again left a mess behind him, all toys can disappear in an unknown direction. And they should be absent longer than the first time. Read the fairy tale "Fedorin's grief" to the troublemaker and ask what happened to the things. It is very possible that the child himself will guess where the toys have gone. Continue the game until the little one starts to put things away without being prompted.
Step 5
Do not forget that all adults in the family should also clean up after themselves. If the child sees that dad is throwing shoes at random, and mom has a habit of leaving knitting in the chair, do not be surprised that he will start doing the same. Words alone will not accomplish anything.
Step 6
Encourage your child to prepare for and clean up on their own. You need to dilute paints carefully so as not to smudge the sink. It is necessary to sculpt on a board, otherwise the table will be dirty and difficult to clean. If a preschooler does spill or get dirty, do not rush to clean up the mess right away, even if the dirt irritates you. Explain that the easiest thing to do is to wipe the stain off the parquet right away, then the paint will set in and it won't be easy to get it out.
Step 7
For classes and homework, the baby should have special clothing. Make room for her. This can be a hook in the kitchen for an apron, a shelf in the closet for an old robe, which can be stained with paint or plasticine. "Overalls" must be available.
Step 8
Teach your child to watch out for street clothes. After a walk, it must be dried. If the little owner does not want to do this, take emergency measures. Pick a day when he doesn't need to go to kindergarten, but he'll probably want to go for a walk. Do not carry clothes thrown in the corridor to dry, but leave them where they are lying around. You can't walk in wet clothes and shoes, so the slob will have to sit at home while the rest of the kids are merrily rolling down the hill. Usually, one such educational measure is sufficient.
