If your sexual partner does not make claims about the quality of sex, this does not mean that he is okay. In order for your sex to be called right, it is often necessary to put in a lot of effort and not be afraid to work on yourself.
Many men and women are constantly inclined to make various mistakes in bed, due to which the partner remains dissatisfied, which can subsequently grow into quarrels and showdowns. Therefore, even those who consider themselves experts in this field have a lot to learn in order to have sex correctly.
In large cities, seminars and courses on teaching the right sex have become more and more popular in recent years. And the most diverse audience comes - from married couples with relationship problems to experienced sex therapists and doctors who come to learn something new.
It seems that in the current situation, when information on spicy topics is present everywhere in gigantic quantities, problems should not arise. However, in fact, most of the books, even if written by experts in their field, are theory divorced from practice. And porn films are only good for entertainment, but you can't learn the right sex from them. Each person is individual, and all the notorious "secret universal techniques that work for all women" in practice in most cases are useless.
If you ask a man or woman about how many good partners there were in their life, rarely will anyone name more than two.
Proper sex is impossible without an understanding of the psychology and physiology of both sides. For women, a beautiful environment, emotional intensity and long foreplay are important, and sometimes a man would rather fall asleep than embody 40-minute foreplay into life. Conversely, a man often needs rough and fleeting sex without any long foreplay and beautifully placed candles, which will not satisfy every woman. You need to be able to compromise and make efforts so that your partner gets real pleasure, and not pretends. And of course, it is worth getting rid of the idea that only a man is capable of reaching orgasm and having pleasure, if there is one.
The vast majority of women (70 to 90%) never admit that a partner in bed does not satisfy them. This is wrong - as long as you keep everything to yourself, a man will consider himself an exemplary lover and nothing will change.
Anyone can learn the right sex if they want. The main thing is the ability to part with stereotypes, the desire to learn new things and not give up when receiving unpleasant truths about yourself and your skills. You can improve your knowledge both at special seminars and master classes, and through regular visits to a sex therapist and psychologist. But of course, you can't do without frank conversations with your soul mate, the ability to listen and try to correct mistakes.
According to most religions, only sex after marriage can be called correct. Of course, before joining it, a girl must be a virgin.
Summarizing all of the above, you can try to identify the factors that distinguish the right sex. The main thing is a deep knowledge of the physiology and psychology of a partner, the ability to compromise in order to please him. Correct sex aims, first of all, to satisfy the partner, and not to satisfy their needs.
If, suddenly, for both people in a couple it is considered normal to have sex once every two weeks in a missionary position under the covers, no one sees the point of changing it and everyone is happy - then, in this case, sex can also be considered correct.
