There is a widespread belief among the people that men are more successful in achieving orgasm than representatives of the opposite sex, and the time of intercourse is not important for them. Is it so?
The difference between male and female "appetites"
Yes, indeed, a man, as a rule, needs only a couple of minutes to reach a climax, while a woman desperately needs to be properly aroused, and only after that she can reach a peak in an average of 20 minutes. Men differ from the weaker sex also in that they experience an orgasm with every sexual intercourse.
An important difference is that women feel the desire for sex much less often. Men, in turn, are almost always ready for sex, and they will not be stopped by fatigue, irritation or a quarrel with a partner. To switch to the "readiness" mode, a man does not need to feel any tender romantic feelings for a partner or a feeling of a loved one. A man's sexual appetite and his emotional background, as a rule, are completely unrelated. But, of course, it is worth considering the fact that severe stress or overwork can disrupt an erection.
What turns him on
Our ancestors also knew the secret that women love with their ears, and men with their eyes. This is an indisputable fact, since it is visual stimuli that most excite a man. It is for this reason that one should not be afraid to undress erotically or be naked with the lights on, on the contrary, it will excite him and he will be ready for sexual intercourse in a matter of moments. Undoubtedly, a man will also appreciate your gentle caresses, but for him, unlike a girl, they are not so important. However, most men have a strong reaction and bliss from his passionate kisses and caresses on your body.
In no case do not worry if your man is stingy with foreplay and rush to get down to business. Perhaps this is due to the fact that he is afraid to get overexcited and finish much earlier than you. In addition, if your partner reaches the peak of pleasure earlier than you, then try to switch to active actions yourself at the beginning of intercourse, and slow down your partner in the process. Such an expectation will most likely only increase his pleasure from orgasm and allow you to experience it.
The duration of your intercourse
According to statistics, sex on average lasts from one minute to 30 minutes, which in turn depends directly on the desire and temperament of partners. However, all scientists in the world have not been able to find confirmation that the longer the sex, the brighter the orgasm; for everyone, after all, the main thing is that pleasure should come, and time is not important. It is also known that some men deliberately delay ejaculation in order to provide longer lasting sex. On the one hand, this is very noble pop towards a woman, but a situation may arise when, after a long intercourse, a woman experiences discomfort associated with vaginal dryness. In addition, it has been scientifically proven that having sex for more than 10 minutes in one position ceases to excite both partners. Quick spontaneous sex, in turn, can bring a lot of pleasure to both partners, provided that both the man and the woman experienced a surge of arousal.
Whatever your sexual relationship, always remember that variety is important in your intimate life. Therefore, do not be afraid to try new unusual positions and places or role-play, and also note that men are just crazy about the fact that a woman herself takes the initiative.
