The divorce statistics in the country are sad. People are increasingly faced with the fact that it becomes very difficult to live next to a once loved and close person. Not everyone wants to exist for a long time in a state of indeterminate status and tense relations, so it often becomes necessary to speed up a divorce.
First, consider whether the divorce is really worth it. All arguments for divorce must be clearly articulated and written down in a secluded place. This will give you decisiveness if you start to doubt at any stage. And in the future, you will easily answer your questions - what exactly did not work out in the previous relationship and what mistakes of the past should be taken into account when building new ones. By the way, it is unprofitable for women to get divorced, especially if they have children, both financially and in terms of the prospects for a new marriage.
Second, prepare yourself and your marriage partner emotionally. Precisely a partner, because a marriage is a joint venture that could not function, and therefore it is better to close it. Your business reputation depends on how you deal with partners; personal reputation will depend on whether you were able to disperse humanly. To disperse faster, you need to distance yourself from your partner psychologically, that is, do not allow yourself scandals and reproaches. Put on a mask of benevolent indifference - then the partner will quickly understand that the relationship in fact is no longer there.
Thirdly, define your material claims to your partner and you may have to sacrifice some of them - consider this a payment for urgency. After all, it is necessary to somehow compensate for the moral suffering of the partner (and they always exist, especially in men, although they do not show them). Your emotional well-being is expensive, so it is better to give up a little in material matters.
Fourth, calmly and confidently convey to your partner that it is hard for you to live in the process of divorce and would like everything to end as soon as possible. Not because your spouse is bad, but because you feel bad - the accent should be just that. Divorce requires cold calculation; resist the temptation to hit as hard as possible when you are in the grip of emotion. You need to create conditions for your future happiness, and not try to ruin the life of the one you leave, even if you have something to avenge.