Even in the strongest family, sooner or later such a situation may arise: the spouses begin to bore each other. In fact: they have long been studied, as they say, "far and wide", all their habits, advantages and disadvantages are known. And the everyday family routine, the same responsibilities. All this contributes to the fact that communication between husband and wife is becoming colder and more formal. And this is fraught with unpleasant consequences: dissatisfaction, mutual reproaches, quarrels, in the most severe cases - the breakdown of the family. How to diversify communication?
Instructions
Step 1
Remember the wise truth: "There must be some kind of mystery in a woman!" It seems to your husband that there are absolutely no secrets left in you, that you cannot surprise him with anything? Change your look radically! Make a completely new, unusual hairstyle, dye your hair, choose an original make-up, update your wardrobe.
Step 2
The husband should also try to ensure that communication with his wife does not resemble the departure of a "duty." Of course, the desire to sit on a comfortable sofa in front of the TV after a busy week of work is understandable and natural. But isn't it better to get out into nature, or visit friends? Or maybe visit a theater or a concert? After all, you have not been there for so long, and even after the cultural event, you can discuss what you saw.
Step 3
If you find that conversations in the family are reduced to discussing things at work, radically change your tactics. You can read or watch information about what your husband likes the most, for example, programs about cars, and at dinner discuss new items on the auto market.
Step 4
Remember the rule: "Monotony kills!" Try to surprise each other with at least some, even the smallest, surprises. The wife "mastered" an original, tasty dish - isn't that a reason for her husband to sincerely praise her? Or the husband himself, on his own initiative, hung a lamp over her "working corner" so that the wife would not spoil her eyesight during needlework - this is a reason for the wife to get into a good mood.
Step 5
Never neglect sex! Resolutely discard the stupid and, alas, very widespread prejudice that only morally unstable, dissolute people can "experiment" in this area. Show your imagination, relaxedness! But, of course, all sorts of "experiments" should take place only by mutual agreement. If something causes embarrassment, all the more so - a decisive rejection of one of the partners, the second partner should not insist on this.
Step 6
Oddly enough, sometimes a temporary "estrangement" of the spouses can help. After all, when they are constantly in front of each other, when they literally "live" with each other, sooner or later it will inevitably start to get boring. A good method is to find yourself an interesting hobby, best of all in the form of a hobby club. After taking care of your hobby, communicating with new people, you will get a lot of positive emotions.
