Sometimes it happens that a girl shows herself only from her best side, and after the wedding she becomes not as attentive, devoted, economic and loving as her husband expected. There are various reasons for this.
Originally from childhood
It happens that a husband takes a sweet girl as his wife, and over time is disappointed at her expense. For example, it may seem to him that the newly-made wife is not economical enough. Some women become bad wives because they have not been taught to be good housewives.
If from childhood you do not explain to the girl how to take care of the comfort in the house, she will still learn to maintain order, cook and deal with the interior of the apartment. In this case, the responsibility can be partially transferred to the mother and grandmother, who at one time did not instill in the girl a love of cleanliness and order, did not teach her to wash, iron, cook and create comfort in the house.
It is also important how much the negligent spouse was pampered in childhood. If all the family members shook over her, did not allow anything to be done by herself, ran to fulfill her slightest whim, the girl may grow up dependent. When she has her own family, the woman does not have the skills to support it.
Some women become bad wives because of their unyielding nature. They don't recognize the need to work on relationships and sometimes compromise with their husband. Perhaps there was no positive example of a relationship between parents in front of the girl's eyes. Sometimes the reason for this is an incomplete family. In this case, a woman needs to somehow rebuild, learn to get along with her beloved man, and not show her character.
Relationship problems
Not always a girl who can in some sense be called a bad wife is the only one to blame for the situation. Her character may deteriorate after some time with her husband. If a man behaves himself incorrectly, does not work on relationships, does not show respect for his wife, does not take into account her opinion, sooner or later the character of his wife may change for the worse.
Sometimes a man in a family behaves like a child. He does not realize all the responsibility that lies with him, does not fulfill the promises made and does not take family life seriously. Next to such a windy, unreliable, unnecessary young man, a woman feels depressed.
She has to solve all household issues herself or force her spouse to take care of the family. In both cases, the girl becomes irritable, demanding and rude. It turns out that her husband is partly to blame for her spoiled character. If he begins to take more care of the house, children, family, pay attention to his wife and help her, the situation may change for the better.
