The holiday romance begins beautifully and suddenly. But violent passion may soon be replaced by disappointment and pain. You can save yourself from disappointment if you stop building illusions and look at the situation soberly.
Away from home and everyday problems, it's easy to fall in love. The atmosphere of a beach resort creates all the conditions for love: romantic sunsets, gentle sun, warm waves. Lack of prohibitions and control.
Increases the thirst for adventure and alcohol, which in most cases can be purchased completely free of charge on vacation due to the all-inclusive function. Therefore, the first rule of defense against love mistakes at the resort: do not get drunk until you lose control of yourself.
It should be noted that the percentage of rapes of young girls in the resort is growing. Refuse to share alcoholic drinks with strangers, do not settle for secluded walks on a wild beach, etc.
Disappointment from a holiday romance among lonely people occurs if expectations are too high in advance. Don't make plans together while the heady atmosphere of the resort dizzy. If the relationship is serious, they must withstand the common life upon arrival home.
Another test for a holiday romance: parting. Someone sooner or later has to leave, while the other has a few more days of rest ahead. Promises to call, write and meet in the city may not come true. Place all the points at once, without waiting for the pain of the experience.
According to Russian statistics, 65% of men and women entering a relationship at a resort are married. A holiday romance for family people is a kind of lifeline from the routine and monotony of sexual relations at home. However, women are more often ready to break family ties for the sake of a lover with whom it was “so good” on vacation.
As a rule, new relationships also gradually lose their sharpness. Instead of throwing yourself headlong into the pool every time, you should take care of the "old" relationships: either end them, or bring in a fresh stream for development.
