A child's tantrums are a fairly common story. Many parents get lost in front of her, not knowing what to do in such situations. Most often, they immediately rush to calm the child. But is it always necessary to do this?
Parents and children
Raising children is hard work. This requires a lot of intelligence and an emotional component. Very often, it is quite difficult for parents to pull themselves together when their child begins to be capricious, throw tantrums, not listen to their persuasions. In order to calm a child down, one cry like: “Shut up! Now you're going to the corner! He stopped crying! etc. To do this, you need to know your beloved child well and use your methods in order to calm him down.
How to calm a child
It is not always worthwhile to immediately rush to the child and begin to calm him down. It happens that after this, children begin to cry and scream even more. You can try to leave him alone. Let him throw out his emotions, and, perhaps, he will calm down on his own. In this situation, it is imperative to ensure that he does not inflict any injuries on himself while alone.
Wise parents know that yelling at a child is useless. They begin to copy and repeat their actions in their tantrums. If parents are calm, it teaches their children to behave in a similar way. Restrain your emotions yourself to teach this to your child.
Small children often throw tantrums because they cannot express their emotions in words. Parents, in turn, not understanding them, also begin to fall into hysterics. They also fail to explain to them what they want. Psychologists studying this problem recommend switching to sign language, which can be easier to explain what a parent wants to say to his baby.
Sometimes an adult really wants to be alone. He needs personal space that no one would violate. Such a need may arise in a child. It is likely that he is simply bored with the people around him and the environment. He begins to scream and cry. Or it can happen, and vice versa, that by screaming and hysterical he tries to attract attention to himself, since he is lonely. We must try to understand this. In one case - just leave the child alone, and in the other - to give him more attention.
Conclusion
Emotionally developed parents should remember that every outburst of aggression, hysteria, anger, their child has a reason. To answer him in the same way is reckless. Only love and understanding can correct this behavior of the child. He must understand that hysteria is not the best way to express his demands.
Parents, having figured out the reason for the hysteria, are obliged to show that he is the most dear and beloved for them. A small person should always know and feel that mom and dad love him, no matter how good or bad he behaves.
