Aggression is a fairly common phenomenon in children, it manifests itself in different forms and for different reasons, but this does not mean that you need to close your eyes to it.
There are many types of child aggression. In infancy, children usually bite their mother's breasts. From a year, he can mock pets. At two or three years old, the child breaks and breaks everything, accompanying everything with wild cries.
At the age of five, aggression is associated with the fact that the child ends up in a team, in a kindergarten. Everything there seems strange to him and, naturally, new. The child wants to fence off himself and his personal space, and therefore there are some problems in the relationship with other children. Of course, for most children, this goes away over time, they learn to find compromises on their own. But there are also individuals who overreact to other children, and their aggression may be unjustified. In such cases, you really need to approach this issue with understanding, seriousness and great responsibility.
Quite a common occurrence in a nursery, when a child bites other children. This is a normal phenomenon, you do not need to make a tragedy out of it and think that your child is abnormal. On the contrary, it is quite understandable from the point of view of psychology. At this age, children learn about the world tactilely, they try to lick, suck or bite something. But, as a rule, at the same time, parents are often very unhappy with such aggressive behavior of the child. In such cases, it is necessary to intelligibly and delicately explain to the baby that it is impossible to bite other children, that it hurts and unpleasant for them. Some parents, not wanting to bother with explanations for a long time, simply bite their children themselves, so that in this example the child will understand that it hurts. But you can't do that. Yes, he will no longer bite others, but this can greatly injure his psyche.
It is no less common when a child fights with other children. Why is this happening? Conflicts between young children can arise for various reasons: they did not share a toy, someone hurt someone, said an offensive word, and much more. The fact that your child is trying to protect himself and restore justice is, of course, good, but only if he does it correctly and adequately. And if a child immediately gets into a fight at any opportunity, it is no longer so good. To avoid this, or eliminate it, you need to talk to the child, explain to him that this should not be done, that it is wrong and ugly. You also need to find out the reasons why the child does this and not otherwise. Perhaps you need to save him from the bad influence of some cartoons or not set such an example for children themselves.
Of course, it is not always possible to eliminate a child's aggression by talking alone, because children are different. Sometimes the reason for this behavior of a child lies in his mental health. Then, of course, you need to contact child psychologists. And be sure - they will definitely help you.
