The excessive desire of parents to indulge all children's whims gives rise to a little commander who is accustomed to achieve what he wants through demands and tantrums. How can you avoid this?
Instructions
Step 1
It's important to start with a set daily routine. It is wrong to allow a child to eat only when he wants to, or to allow noisy games until late at night. Before going to bed, be sure to brush your teeth and so on, no exceptions to the rule.
Step 2
The child needs a sufficient amount of attention, its absence becomes the reason for being too demanding. Children may deliberately, by bad deeds, try to attract attention to themselves. Don't turn your back on the child. If he asks for something, try to respond immediately.
Step 3
Even in case of hysteria, the main thing is not to lose composure and explain to the child in a calm, stern tone that until he calms down, you will not talk to him. Give your child time to calm down. Control yourself. Do not rush to fulfill the requirements in exchange for good behavior.
Step 4
Be adamant. Learn to say the word, no. If today, it was decided not to buy toys, do not buy, even the smallest one. Ignore the child's persuasion, because later they can grow into demands. Try to always keep your promises to the baby, then he will clearly understand that your words correspond to actions.
Step 5
Explain to your child that the opinions and interests of others are as important as his. If he wants to be loved and taken into account all desires, then he should do the same. Care and love should be mutual, if the child does not feel this from the parents, it is useless to demand from him any actions.
Step 6
By observing the atmosphere in the family, the child can learn to demand in an imperative manner simply by imitating his family. Parents need to watch themselves and their speech, the child is a mirror image of their family.
Step 7
Don't forget about praise and encouragement. If the kid coped with something on his own, be sure to praise him, rejoice at his success. Observing your sincere delight, the child will strive again, to bring you joy.
