The ability to love is not only a talent and an innate quality, but also an art. They learn this all their lives, and often only in old age do people see beautiful examples of true love. Unselfish, light and kind love that inspires and teaches.
Instructions
Step 1
Only a loving person with a kind soul can teach to love. Usually people who know how to love are unusually emotionally pleasant. Therefore, work to stop negative emotions from living in your soul. Even in the morning on transport, do not allow yourself to be annoyed. To begin with, stop showing negative emotions outwardly, over time, the inner state will come into harmony with the outer behavior. It is not harmful for women to restrain emotions, hormones reliably protect their heart until the onset of menopause. And self-control will come in handy when building a career.
Step 2
You need to learn not to be afraid of parenting situations. Precisely those in which your chosen one can "pierce". He may be logical, but not emotionally sensitive, so in ambiguous situations he may not behave the way you want him to. Do not be afraid of such situations. For example, you have lost something and are very worried. A man, at best, will offer you to buy the same thing in return. At worst, you will receive reproaches and litigation. So you need to work on love if he cannot but reproach you. You need to talk to him and say softly that the main thing for you is not even a thing, but his sympathy and support. Your man often simply does not know what is expected of him and how to react, which is why he is angry. Teach him what you want to hear, explain the situation on your fingers. After all, men often find it difficult to understand a woman's need for empathy.
Step 3
Be a patient teacher. If the first time you did not succeed in conveying your desires to your beloved, do not give up trying. If you are important to him, after a while, behavior will change for the better. It's just that men often have no idea what kind of behavior will be approved. Therefore, accompany any achievement with delight and gratitude. He deserved it.
