You feel that this person is exactly who you need. He is the man of your dreams, and all your thoughts are only about him. But does he feel the same? Does every hour only think of you? If not, it's easy to fix. After all, women are made to drive men crazy.
Instructions
Step 1
Men love to feel like conquerors. Someone says - hunters, but you are not a prey, but a woman who needs to be sought. Even if you are crazy about him - pull yourself together. There shouldn't be too many of you. Let him himself look for opportunities to see you, to interest you in something unusual. Let him feel that he was able to tear you away from some urgent matters, to withstand competition with someone or something. Even if for you now there is nothing more important than hypnotizing the phone while waiting for its call, let it be a secret for him. Give him a sense of victory, it will raise his self-esteem and "tie" to you as the source of this heady feeling. But you shouldn't rush to the other extreme without showing any initiative in communication - if you adhere strictly to the rule "the girl never calls first", he may doubt that he is interesting to you.
Step 2
Show him that you have another interesting and fulfilling life - friends, work, hobbies. If he can call at any time and ask "What are you doing?" and to hear: "Nothing, I'm waiting for you," he will think that you are not interesting to anyone and are not carried away by anything. Why should he think - "What is she doing now?" If he already knows this? Do not repeat the mistake of many girls who want to completely "merge" their lives with the life of their chosen one, do not seek to re-acquaint a man with all of their girlfriends, do not invite to bachelorette parties and meetings with classmates, do not demand to accompany you during shopping. Let your life boil not only when he is around, but also on its own. Gathering with friends, a Spanish learning club, sports, ballroom dancing - you should not give up all this in the name of love. Otherwise, it is possible that soon your loved one will find that it is getting boring with you.
Step 3
Flirt with him. Do not think that if you are already having an affair, then the time for flirtation is over. After all, he became interested in you and fell in love with you just like that - light, a little mysterious, accidentally touching his hand and slipping away. Constant flirting will not allow your relationship to turn into a routine and will "warm up" his interest.
Step 4
Appreciate what he does for you. If a man knows how delighted you have come from his last surprise. If you showed him how pleased you are with his gift. If you, in his presence, quote his jokes, clever thoughts and tell someone about what amazing courageous deeds he does for you, he will enjoy his "minutes of glory" and constantly think about what else to do for you.
Step 5
Become him not only a mistress, but a friend and advisor. It doesn't take much to do this. Listen more to what he is talking about, and do not tell about yourself in the smallest detail, do not retell all the details of the day lived (especially since it is just such monologues that men usually “ignore”). Try to delve into difficult situations in his life, try to support him. Even if his work is connected with some high-tech things, there are people around him in this work and, of course, they have some kind of relationship there. Who is better at understanding relationships than women? Unobtrusively give him advice and soon he will get used to the fact that you have become a part of his life and in this he will willingly discuss working moments with you.
Step 6
Leave in his life the subtle signs of your presence. There is no need to bring a brush, slippers, kilograms of cosmetics and your favorite dressing gown to his house. He would rather perceive this as an encroachment on his freedom and personal space. But forgetting a hairpin next to the bed, and in the bathroom a tube of lipstick - you can. As well as giving him a funny keychain, a handy diary or a mug with a funny inscription - they will subtly remind him of you all the time, every time he sees these things.
Step 7
Remind about yourself - and be unpredictable at the same time. If you endlessly send him the same type of sms that you love him and miss him - it will delight at first, and then it will start to be perceived as something ordinary. Make surprises. If you suddenly send him your photo from an erotic photo shoot by e-mail, he will remember. If you write him something funny to cheer him up before a hard work day, he will appreciate it. From time to time, leave funny notes in his pockets, put a small souvenir under the pillow, send a paper letter or a postcard … whatever is enough for your imagination. Do not stick to a clear schedule - and in the end he will always expect surprises from you.
Step 8
Give him minor reasons to be jealous. Such that he understands that he is jealous of you completely in vain, but he could not help himself. Smile at some unfamiliar man, and after a few minutes comment that he just amused you with an extravagant T-shirt or a shocking haircut. Show up with a bouquet of luxurious flowers and only after some time tell in passing that your employee has a birthday tomorrow, and you bought a bouquet in advance from the whole team. Go to a corporate event in a mind-blowing sexy dress, showing your chosen one how stunning you are. Say that this party is for a long time, and then leave it early and go to him. Let him think "this woman is driving me crazy", but never - "she is definitely cheating on me."
Step 9
What about sex? Surely you know exactly how to give him and yourself maximum pleasure. And, if you want to tie a man to yourself even more tightly, try to caress him in a strictly defined way at the moment when he reaches the point of highest pleasure. For example, stroking your thigh, running your fingers down your back, ruffling your hair. Soon he will get used to it and unconsciously will begin to perceive this gesture as an integral part of orgasm - and without your, it is your affection, he will always miss something.
