Life is a complex and multifaceted thing. Today you walked with your beloved, sat in a cafe, and tomorrow he already leaves you. And he leaves for a whole year. Perhaps he was taken into the army, or maybe he was offered a lucrative contract to work in another city or even a country. Actually, the reason why you break up is not so important, but the only thing that matters is that you will not see each other for 12 months. This time can be a real test for your feelings, and many girls who find themselves in such a situation, the question arises: "How to live a year without a loved one?"
Instructions
Step 1
The main advice that can be given in this case is that you need to distract from your thoughts. But how you can do this is another question. A year without a loved one is a great time to pursue your own education and career. If you are a student, give your full attention to your studies at the school. Perhaps you have not passed exams and credits? Then it’s time to tackle the “tails”. Or you can take the time to write term papers, essays, diplomas.
If you already have an education, then pursue your career. Take into work some new and interesting project that completely absorbs your attention. Or you can travel on business trips during this time, where you will learn new experience and skills for your work.
Step 2
If everything is good with education and work, then find yourself some hobby that you can do in your free time. Perhaps it will be cross-stitching, or maybe a trip to the fitness center will be the very outlet that you need so much.
Step 3
Spend more time with your girlfriends, friends, relatives. Surely, recently you have rarely seen each other, but now there is an excellent opportunity to communicate more often. Visit with them any cultural events: museums, exhibitions, theaters. Go to cafes, clubs, movies. Or maybe you will get together with friends and go somewhere to relax, for example, on a lake or in a forest.
Step 4
Take care of your appearance. Change your hair color, visit beauty salons, change your clothing style. And if you have long wanted to lose weight, then now you should throw all your strength into it. Imagine what a surprise it will be for your loved one when he comes back and sees you slender and transformed.
Step 5
Sign up for any courses or trainings. Such a pastime will not only help to distract from sad thoughts of separation from your loved one, but will also be beneficial for your personal development. Take a public speaking course where you will be taught to speak beautifully and persuasively. Or study a foreign language. Or maybe you wanted to learn how to sew for a long time? Then you should choose the cutting and sewing courses. Decide what interests you.
Step 6
But in the cycle of new hobbies and impressions, do not forget about your loved one. Chat with him. Fortunately, now there are many ways how to do this (phone, Internet, etc.). And remember, a year is not that long. Before you have time to look back, you will need to run to meet your loved one at the train station or airport.
