The instinct of motherhood is inherent in each of us from birth. No matter how we resist, there is such a thing as a biological clock. And at a certain moment they begin not just to tick, but to rumble. In addition to our desire, thoughts appear: “Will I have children? If so, when? Will I be able to give birth when I want? There is nothing strange in this, these are absolutely normal questions that concern most of the female population. We will try to allay the fears associated with the children's theme, and give you some unobtrusive recommendations.
Instructions
Step 1
The easiest way to find out the future is to go to a fortune teller. It's funny, of course, but in fact you don't lose anything from this, and any experience, without exception, is always useful. But do not try to talk about your misfortune, otherwise you run the risk of demolishing more than one thousand rubles for “getting rid of the evil eye or generic curse on the female line”. Don't show excessive interest. For example, the question can be formulated as follows: “I would like to know what awaits in my personal life. When will I get married and how many children will I have?"
Step 2
If you don't want to go to a fortune teller, buy a palmistry book. By hand, it is possible to find out the whole life, including the number of husbands and children. As one of the options, there are a lot of different online fortune-telling on the Internet, try it, sometimes it is interesting. Of course, this advice should not be viewed as a guide to action. However, if you have a sufficient sense of humor and do not take life too seriously, such a pastime will distract from gloomy thoughts, and, again, there will be something to tell your girlfriends.
Step 3
Cases when pregnancy is impossible for medical reasons are a tragedy, but such a diagnosis is not always a verdict. If you are worried, do not be lazy, go to the doctor, get tested. It's better to know for sure than to torment yourself with unfounded fears. In most cases, infertility is treated, and the sooner you tackle this issue, the better.
Step 4
Another important point is age. Unfortunately, the definition “my years, my wealth” does not apply here. It is generally accepted that the reproductive age is quite small. At twenty-eight years old, a woman is already considered a divorce or any other ambiguous situation, is unlikely to interfere with the child's communication with the father.
Step 5
But what if you can never really become a mother? Accident, unsuccessful operation, congenital defect. It is painful, unpleasant, offensive, but you should not despair. He who seeks, he will find, he who wants, he will achieve. While you sit and feel sorry for yourself, pondering why you were deprived of the main happiness in the life of every woman, somewhere there is a baby who has no one in the whole wide world. Only he, by virtue of the dreaminess inherent in children, believes that this is not forever, that one day the door will open and a woman will enter, whom he can call a mother. And then everything will work out: there will be a house, your own room, your own, not common, toys, an album with family photos and plans for the future. Perhaps your task is to learn unconditional love, not regulated by any rules and blood ties. Why not give the orphan a chance to find a family, perhaps this will be the greatest success for both of you?
