Generational conflict and constant quarrels often force children to leave the family. It seems to them that if they leave their parental home, then life will become much easier. The task of parents in such a situation is to return the confused child home as soon as possible.
Instructions
Step 1
To understand the reason for such an act of your daughter, first answer yourself the question: could you have pushed her to leave home with your words or actions? Many children (especially girls) are overly sensitive to reproaches from their parents. Once sowing a seed of doubt in your daughter as to whether you love her, you can trigger the mechanism for the development of an inferiority complex. Therefore, you need to be careful with the words that you say to your daughter. Encourage her in difficult times, and do not call talentless or stupid.
Step 2
They do not leave the house in which they are comfortable. This means that you have created such conditions that the only way out for your daughter was to leave. Constant scandals and conflicts at home do not improve the microclimate in the family. A child who is constantly humiliated by his parents will seek support from friends. Those, in turn, can incite him to escape from the house. It is more difficult for girls to decide on this, they are more attached to home and family. But, driven to despair, the daughter will pack her things and leave - it will be much more difficult to return her due to her greater sensitivity and vulnerability than the boy. Therefore, you need to work on yourself in order to be able to return your daughter to her native land. She will not return if she feels the same negative attitude.
Step 3
To persuade your daughter to return home, stock up on warm words and patience. Do not, having received a refusal, break into a scream and appeal to the fact that you have spent a whole life on raising her, and she is treating you so ungratefully. Tell her affectionately that you have realized your mistakes and that you miss her a lot. Relying on family ties and spiritual unity with your daughter, you will achieve the desired results.
