Getting to know your parents is an important and very responsible step in a relationship between two people. A successful acquaintance can bring you closer to each other even more, and an unsuccessful one, on the contrary, can become a reason for a quarrel. Most people in one way or another listen to the opinion of their parents, so a lot depends on how they will treat your chosen one. So how to introduce a girl to her parents so that positive emotions remain on both sides?
Instructions
Step 1
Choose the right moment to meet. Perhaps it will be a family celebration, a trip to nature, etc. You should not bring a girl to meet unexpectedly, as some of your parents may not be ready for this, for example, they will feel bad at this moment, which can spoil the overall impression of dating. And the girl in such a situation will feel uncomfortable. Warn both parents and your significant other in advance so that they are mentally prepared for this event.
Step 2
Before you bring a girl to get acquainted, briefly tell your parents about her, about her character, her hobbies. Let them already have some opinion about her. Naturally, try to keep this opinion positive.
Step 3
Prepare your loved one for a visit. Tell us about your parents, about their activities, what questions they are most likely to ask, what might interest them in her personality. This is necessary for the girl to be more confident and calm, although some excitement will be present anyway.
Step 4
You, like no one else, know what your parents like. Therefore, advise the girl what is best to buy as a gift. Maybe your dad loves cognac, then you can present him with this drink in a beautiful bottle. And you can give your mom her favorite flowers and sweets. It is not necessary to give too expensive gifts, as it may look like an attempt to earn a good attitude at the expense of material resources. But coming without a gift is also not very decent.
Step 5
Advise the girl how to dress better. The first impression should be good, so it is important that your significant other looks neat, well-groomed, stylish. If she adheres to some extraordinary style, then she does not need to completely change her image, but she should try to soften it so as not to shock her parents. And they should be warned that the girl does not dress in their usual way.
Step 6
Let the girl try to behave easily and at ease during the very acquaintance. You shouldn't sit around and be afraid to say the word again, but excessive talkativeness may not please your parents. Help your girlfriend during the conversation, especially if you see that she is nervous. Somewhere make a joke, somewhere transfer the conversation to another topic, if you see that the conversation begins to acquire an unwanted turn.
