You have been dating for quite some time, spend a lot of time together, you know about each other, as it seems, almost everything. But you haven't introduced her to your friends yet and want to do it in the near future. How to introduce your beloved girl to friends, so that between them, if not friendly, but friendly relations develop. Meeting friends is not like meeting your parents, but it is still important, since the opinion of friends is of great importance to many people.
Instructions
Step 1
If you have been dating for a long enough time, then you should know about the girl's tastes, interests, predilections. Based on this data, you can already judge whether she will like your company and your friends, and you can also guess what difficulties may arise when communicating and how to avoid them. It may be worthwhile to warn the girl in advance about some rules of conduct in your company, so that they do not come as a surprise to her, and she fits better into your social circle.
Step 2
Choose such places for dating, where everyone would feel comfortable: both your beloved and friends. It might be worth making an acquaintance at a party when people are relaxed and positive. In such a relaxed atmosphere, you don't even need to make much effort to get to know each other. Everyone will get to know each other by themselves.
Step 3
If you are not sure that your friends will accept your girlfriend well or that she will fit into your company, then you should postpone dating until better times, as your nervousness will be felt by others. They will think that you yourself are unsure whether you need a relationship with this person or not. Naturally, this may affect the acquaintance. Therefore, if you nevertheless decide to introduce your soul mate to friends, be calm, confident, natural. Better that they respect and accept your choice, and not you and your relationship will depend on their opinion.
Step 4
If you see that the acquaintance is not going very well, and friends are wary of your girlfriend, and she does not show much enthusiasm, then find a polite reason to stop this communication, which does not give pleasure to one of the parties.
Step 5
If your beloved did not find common points of contact with your friends, this does not mean at all that she is not suitable for you and you need to part. Of course, you need to listen to the opinion of friends, but it is not the only correct one. If you feel good with a particular person, you enjoy spending time together, then you need to continue to develop your relationship. And in the future, perhaps, your girlfriend's communication with friends will improve when they get to know each other better. But even if this does not happen, you can ask both your company and the girl to adhere to polite neutrality when meeting, so that everyone feels more or less comfortable.
