Parting with a loved one does not always mean the end of a relationship, because real feelings will survive even such problems. Behavior with your ex-husband or boyfriend will help you regain your status as a couple in love within a few months.
Instructions
Step 1
Consider your decision to return your ex. First, be clear about whether you really want this. Perhaps you are affected by an affected pride or a fear of being left alone. If you love this person and understand that you made a mistake, take action.
Step 2
Try not to disappear from his field of vision. Surely during your relationship you have accumulated a lot of mutual friends and acquaintances. They will be the reason for your meetings. Birthdays, wedding anniversaries, and other events that you both will be invited to celebrate will help you see each other and remember each other's existence.
Step 3
Remind yourself with rare calls. Living together means common problems. And after parting, they do not disappear immediately. They will be the reason for periodic calls. A leaking tap, a broken computer, searching for this or that thing in the house - all this is a completely reasonable reason to contact your ex. Say hello, quickly take an interest in his business and get down to business right away. If he offers to help, do not refuse.
Step 4
Show that you have changed. If you broke up, it means that something did not suit him in you. Work on yourself and be sure to demonstrate that you are different. He did not like your visits to cafes with your friends - when you call in the evening, mention that you are at home; he was not satisfied with the fact that he was constantly at home - buy a subscription to a fitness club and sign up for a foreign language course. It is important not only to lure the ex and stay the same at the same time, but to really do something so that this time the relationship is a success.
Step 5
Get a fan. There is nothing better for grabbing the attention of an ex than a new man next to his woman. Don't play wild passion and love. Just show that you are able to live on, find yourself a man who will receive all that he has lost. Jealousy is your best helper.
