A mother raising a child alone, unfortunately, is not uncommon. Often the reasons for such a situation are the relationship between the woman and the future father of the baby, which did not immediately take shape, or the separation of the parents after the birth of the baby, there are also other reasons. Time passes and the woman again has a desire to arrange her personal happiness: to find a husband for herself and a father (albeit step-by-step, but loving) for a child.
Instructions
Step 1
The most important condition for finding a worthy life partner and marrying him, given that a woman already has a child, is not to hide the very fact that she has a baby. A deceived man is unlikely to understand such a position or "enter into the position" of a deceitful lover.
Step 2
A woman with a baby should not deny herself the pleasure of visiting crowded places (including unmarried men), where you can spend time with pleasure, because a young mother now always has a person nearby who will keep her company - her child. He will gladly go bowling with her (he will even just draw while sitting at a table, or eat a cake), and in a cafe. Therefore, you do not need to be discouraged after the refusal of a married girlfriend in a request to her to make a company for a joint vacation.
Step 3
Walk more with your child not only on the playground in the courtyard of the house, but also in parks, squares, near city fountains, that is, where not only mothers with babies and strollers walk, but also young unmarried men.
Step 4
At work, in the eyes of colleagues and clients, a woman acquires a completely different status: now she is a mother, and this transfers her from the category of simply girls to the category of responsible girls, because raising a child and its material content are serious things that require completely different (and, in the opinion most, exclusively positive) qualities. Men begin to look differently at a single woman with a child: some - as an easily accessible object that wants male attention, while others - as a matured and wiser employee. But the attention of both one and the other, the woman will not be deprived. And here the main thing is to choose the category that is closer to the heart.
Step 5
You can try for dating in order to find a husband as a dating service and the possibility of special Internet sites. You just need to be more careful at the same time, since acquaintances through such resources are a favorite way of searching for victims by scammers.
Step 6
You should not be discouraged and tell everyone and everyone that being alone is bad and difficult. Pity cannot arouse interest in a woman as an object with which men associate their thoughts for a common future. A positive, good-natured, smiling young mother is much more attractive to men than a bore complaining about life.
Step 7
It would also be nice to do something for which there was not enough time in caring for a husband or an infant: dancing, rock climbing, figure skating, and so on. This adds to the woman's attractiveness, because a person who is keen on something is more interesting to those around him: he has something to tell, something to share and something to argue about. Men notice such women more often.
Step 8
It should be noted that an easy way for a man to get acquainted with a charming young mother who has liked him is to easily talk with her baby, as well as with her herself, on a topic related to children. Therefore, it is worth taking your child with you everywhere, not considering him an obstacle to a possible acquaintance with the man of your dreams.
