Virginity among girls is now becoming increasingly rare, as boys and girls most often begin sexual activity during adolescence. Men who value innocence in a woman may try to find out if their chosen one is a virgin.
How to secretly learn about virginity
First, try to figure out if the girl is innocent without asking her questions about it. For example, pay attention to how she behaves in communication. If a girl communicates stiffly, shows shyness, flinches when you touch her, and herself avoids tactile contact, this may indicate her little experience with men. Girls who have already had sexual intercourse, most often more relaxed, communicate with men more confidently, and in their eyes one can read an interest in how their companion will behave further. However, behavior and character traits do not always allow you to accurately determine whether a virgin is in front of you or not.
Try to gently shift the conversation to intimate topics. Ask the girl what type of men she likes and why. Also ask about the appearance and build of the opposite sex that attracts her. Girls who have had sexual experience usually already have an idea of their ideal type of men. If a girl does not live a sex life, she may argue that a man's appearance does not play a big role for her. However, this method of clarifying the question that concerns you is not always accurate.
Open conversation
Ask what kind of relationship the girl had before, and how long she dated this or that man. Often, a girl immediately replies to this that her past relationship lasted a year or more. At the same time, most likely, it can be unambiguously concluded that she also has sexual experience. Innocent girls tend to avoid talking about previous relationships or tell a fictitious story.
If you already know a girl well and are fluent in any topic, ask which men are sexually attracted to her, and whether sex is important to her at all. Most likely, the virgin will be confused by this question, and she will either have to admit her innocence, or try to "dodge" and lie to you.
If you have a good and reliable relationship with a girl, you can try asking the girl directly if she is a virgin or not. Most likely, if this is so, then she was waiting for this question and will tell you the truth, especially if she is experiencing love feelings. And, of course, if you are spending a romantic evening together and things are moving towards sex, be sure to ask the girl directly whether she is a virgin or not, because in a fit of passion she may miss this moment and not talk about it, not knowing what it is. can lead to consequences.
