Unfortunately, marriages are not always lasting. Love between spouses can wane. It happens that the reason for the dissolution of the union is the spouse's love for another man.
In such situations, the husband may ask questions about what he did wrong, why the wife fell in love with another guy, whether it is still possible to save the family. Misunderstanding and resentment towards your spouse are quite understandable feelings. To somehow get out of this situation, you need to understand the situation and your own feelings.
Talk to your wife
You shouldn't walk away from the problem and pretend that nothing happened. At the same time, throwing a scandal on a wife because of her feelings for someone else's peasant is also not good. Better to calmly discuss the situation together.
Of course, coping with emotions and tune in to a constructive conversation in this case is very difficult. But understand that your wife is not a thing or a robot. The fact that she fell in love with another could happen completely against her will. Respect her choice and appreciate that she has found the courage to be honest and decent with you. Your woman showed all her cards, and did not start leading a double life, deceiving you. At least she can be thanked for that.
Be patient and listen to your wife's position. Maybe her story will help you draw useful conclusions and correct your own behavior in the future. Perhaps your spouse will tell you what was wrong with your marriage or how your behavior pushed her away.
Of course, it would be better to discuss the problems in due time, but take this situation for granted and derive at least some benefit from it.
Check the senses
Maybe the situation has not gone far, and your spouse is being deceived in her feelings. If you don't want to lose her, try saving your marriage. Pay more attention to your wife, give her flowers. Invite your spouse to a restaurant or theater, organize a trip to the country in which she has long wanted to visit.
Perhaps this is not the end of your love, but a crisis of relationships. How well you handle this test depends largely on your sensitivity and patience. Bring liveliness and variety to your intimate life, give compliments and gifts, surprise your wife.
Demonstrate to your wife that you need her. Prove that you love her and try to awaken her feelings as well.
Let your spouse go
If your efforts have not led to a result, it remains only to let your spouse go. Understand that your relationship has changed forever. You cannot keep the woman you love by force. Do not blame her for what happened and do not punish yourself for her leaving.
Nobody will benefit from the fact that you part not in a civilized manner, but with a scandal. It is unlikely that you will be able to be friends in the future, but keeping some kind of human relationship is worth it.
