Children are one of the obligatory participants in family relations. For their sake, many parents maintain relationships and do not disagree. But is it worth it and what awaits a child in a divorce?
Family relationships are one of the most important values in the life of every person. By getting married, people take not only an oath of allegiance, but also a guarantee of support in any situation.
Children who appear as a result of cohabitation of a man and a woman sometimes not only become happiness, but also a burden for the family, which has actually outlived itself. So is it worth keeping a marriage just for the sake of having both parents in the child?
The psyche of the little man is not very stable and the scandals of the parents can only make the child the most unhappy in the world. According to many children, mom and dad should always be calm, smiling and happy. And rarely any of the guys insists that his parents be legally married.
What consequences await the child
- Sunday dad. The child still has a dad, but now he does not live with his mother, but comes specially to his son or daughter, takes him to the park, walks and devotes more time.
- Stepfather. Sooner or later, the mother gets married again, and accordingly, the child has a stepfather, who initially tries to improve relations and devotes a lot of time trying to fill the lack of a father.
- Calm, loving and always in a good mood mom and dad. Indeed, after a divorce, as a rule, emotions subside a little and the parents can even make friends, which means that the child will not feel unhappy and intimidated.
Based on these points, we can conclude that it is not always necessary to keep a mythical happy family for the sake of a child, because the little man is very perceptive and will very quickly guess that mom and dad are no longer as happy as before.
