Neither height, nor weight, nor age, nor color of eyes or hair affects the fact that girls want to be desired. Everyone wants to turn their heads and arouse admiration, especially when it comes to their own young man. But what to do if, confessing his love, a man is in no hurry to acquaint his beloved with parents or friends, rarely calls to a movie or a restaurant, and generally tries to meet only in private? Willy-nilly, the question arises - is he not shy?
Having drawn the ideal image of a girl, many men fall in love with those who do not always correspond to this ideal. It seems that there is love, but at the same time there is a complex regarding the fact that with such a girlfriend he will be laughed at. What is a poor girl to do in such a situation?
Problems with external parameters
The most common reason for male complexes is related to the appearance of his girlfriend. For friends, he needs a slender model, parents are waiting for acquaintance with the model of chastity. If a girl does not meet these parameters by 100%, the man will feel ashamed for her.
In such a situation, you need to understand how expensive a relationship with a man is, in order to change yourself for them - get rid of a couple of extra pounds, remove piercings or tattoos, change the style of clothing. Perhaps the game is worth the candle, and the relationship after the change of image will be perfect. What if it turns out that there are new shortcomings and have to live, constantly adjusting to someone else's opinion?
Behavior in public
Excessive modesty or inability to restrain himself and remain silent at the right moment. This is another reason for complexes. A man was brought up according to one rules, his chosen one according to others. The framework of decency is different for everyone, as are the rules of etiquette.
And again, you need to look at yourself from the outside in order to understand whether the comments are reasonable and this is a reason to work on yourself or are they simple nit-picking. In this case, you can turn to relatives and friends for help, frankly asking what in your behavior and to them seems unacceptable and inappropriate.
Childhood problems
A man, criticized in childhood by his own parents, will not only be ashamed of the girl, leaving her lost in riddles, he will constantly poke his flaws in the nose. Children's complexes break out and find a target in the form of a girl, on whom criticism pours in an endless stream.
Children's problems are a complex concept. Most likely, they will remain for life, and you will remain fat, ugly, unable to dress, behave - the list is endless. Do you want to become a victim of other people's complexes, additionally accumulating them in yourself? Maybe it's better to find someone who, with one drawback, will see 1000 advantages, and not vice versa?
When deciding whether to stay with a man who is ashamed of you, or to find happiness with someone else, you need to think only about yourself and your well-being. What do you prefer - admiration or constant shame for your inconsistency with someone else's ideal?
