For many girls, kissing is a pleasant and very important part of a relationship. Long kisses under the moonlight or quick kisses at the door of the apartment, goodbye - such gestures allow the fair sex to feel loved and desired. But there are situations when there is a relationship, but for some reason the guy is in no hurry to kiss the girl.
Shy
The fear of going from walking by the hand to kissing is inherent for the most part in adolescents. If you are thirteen or fifteen years old, you probably shouldn't worry about such an attitude. Still, a kiss at this age is a very important event. If your young man is much older, this also does not mean that he is not worried and is not afraid to ruin everything, especially if he has little experience. If you want to rectify the situation - just gently take the initiative and kiss the young man first.
Afraid to scare away
Perhaps the guy thinks that you do not want the same thing that he does, and is afraid to scare you with his persistence. Therefore, he will take you on dates, give flowers, try to get to know you better, inspire confidence in himself and wait. There is a possibility that earlier he had some traumatic experience associated with this action - for example, a girl he liked after the first kiss announced that she was treating him like a friend. Explicit signals from you will help him understand that you do not mind. Lay your head on his shoulder while watching a movie, look into his eyes, gently take his hand and hug, and the man will guess what you are for.
He doesn't like kissing
The location and sensitivity of erogenous zones in humans varies. Of course, lips and tongue are those for many men and women, but there is a chance that you got a guy who is not aroused by kisses. Moreover, such actions can even cause disgust. In this situation, it is better not to be persistent: bodily contact should be pleasant for both participants in the process. You will have to decide if you can live without kissing on the lips or find a replacement. If such manifestations of feelings are extremely important to you, it is better to part with the young man.
You are not his girlfriend
The young man regularly invites you to cafes, cinemas and walks around the city, he hugs you by the shoulders, smacks you on the cheek and forehead, happily shares his jacket when you feel cold, but for some reason is in no hurry to kiss you on the lips. If this is not the first date, and such a relationship lasts quite a long time, think about it, does he consider you his girlfriend? Perhaps you are a friend for him, with whom it is pleasant to spend time, whom he values and cares about, but plans to build a romantic relationship with another. A heart-to-heart conversation or an unobtrusive question about whether he likes someone can help you resolve this dilemma.
