Sometimes in friendships there comes a moment when the realization comes that they have exhausted themselves. Of course, this process is usually painful for both parties if you truly value the friendship and are sincere in the relationship. After all, a real friend is the person who knows all your secrets, all the pros and cons.
Instructions
Step 1
Make an appointment with your friend to meet and talk somewhere. It should be an absolutely calm environment where no one will bother you, because you should calmly explain the situation, and your friend should also think about how to proceed, since this decision is not new at all for you, but for a friend it is turns out to be news. Of course, doing this will not be easy, but you must be determined and do it. Take the initiative.
Step 2
Think carefully about the course of your conversation in advance. If you really intend to finally and irrevocably break off the relationship, do not avoid in the conversation the last word "goodbye". Do not be afraid, because you have already made your decision. Now you just need to decide to say about it.
Step 3
Don't promise what you know you can't do. You should not promise to think about it and, perhaps, change your mind, or - to discuss everything again at a new meeting. After all, you have already made a decision, and it cannot be changed or corrected. All your thoughts about this are only illusions. At first it will not be easy for you to come to terms with this, but then you will be convinced of the correctness of your decision. And if you are completely sure that you do not need this relationship, do not build illusions and do not hold them by force, pretending that everything is fine.
Step 4
Both parties must remember that revenge over a breakup is not the best thing to do, and it will not help in any way to resolve the current situation. This will only exacerbate all the difficulties in the relationship, instilling in each of you that the breakup was an act that was one hundred percent right. But returning everything to its place is also not a good idea, because a relationship that once cracked will never be perfect again.
