Feelings of separation from a loved one can cause intense emotional distress, but people cannot always express them in words. Most often there are specific reasons for this.
Why people are silent about their feelings
People differ in their sensitivity to certain life situations, one of which is separation. Even if you miss someone close to you a lot, they may not feel the same way about you. Perhaps the reason is also the amount of time during which you did not see each other. Some get bored right after parting, while others get bored after a few days, weeks, or even years.
Sometimes the fact that the person close to you does not feel separation or prefers not to express it in words actually means that he has no counter feelings towards you. Perhaps it is the long separation that will help you find out how he really treats you. However, do not jump to conclusions, as the reason for this behavior may be different.
Some people are shy and tight-lipped, so even if the person misses you, they might just be ashamed to admit it. Perhaps you are not yet close enough to speak to each other such sensual words. After a while, when you get to know each other better, you will be able to communicate on any topic, including your mutual feelings.
In some situations, the person may simply not be able to contact you to say "miss you." Perhaps he ran out of funds on his phone, or the Internet was disconnected for non-payment. Some may find themselves in difficult situations at work or school, when they have to work hard. In this case, there is no time at all for conversations. If you know that this is how things are with a loved one, be understanding and wait a little. Over time, he will definitely contact you and tell you that he was very bored.
Take control of the situation
It is possible that in your case everything is the other way around - you yourself are experiencing difficulty in order to say "miss" to a loved one, for example, for one of the reasons described above. If you value your relationship, you shouldn't keep those feelings to yourself. Tell someone you care about them in any way you can. Rest assured, he will be very pleased to hear this from you, and most likely he will say that he also misses you a lot and is looking forward to meeting you. Subsequently, you will get used to such communication and will definitely become closer to each other.
