When a child becomes a teenager, many problems begin. It seemed that a couple of years ago there were no problems, the child was at a glance. Now he skips family dinners, disrupts joint vacation trips, constantly occupies the bathroom and spends all his free time in his room at the computer.
This situation causes misunderstanding among parents. There are 10 things that annoy parents of a growing child.
Teenager's room
At one point, parents notice a sign on the door to their child's room - "do not enter without knocking." This leads them, to put it mildly, into a stupor. They feel insulted and cannot understand the reasons for this child's behavior. They need time to learn to accept such conditions.
Different socks
Parents wonder where all the pair of socks went. They spend time looking for them, but it's much better to make different socks a part of the teenager's wardrobe.
The appearance of a teenager
It is worth accepting the fact that a teenager no longer wants to listen to the opinions of adults and seeks to form his own style. He already has an opinion on how to dress, and his parents, in his opinion, are completely devoid of a sense of style.
Headphones
Teenagers love to sit with their phone or player and listen to music on headphones. On the one hand, this solves the problem of loud music coming from the room, on the other hand, it annoys parents who cannot attract the attention of the child. Also, adolescents have chosen a successful tactic of escape from conflicts with their parents - they simply turn on the music in their headphones at full volume and it is useless to shout to their parents.
Gadgets
Some adults learn the latest techniques easily. Others need help. Teenagers take advantage of this. So don't be fooled if they say they didn't hear the phone.
Contempt
Often, adolescents show disrespect to their parents and teachers. It is very difficult to convey information to growing children. They are constantly lazy and seem to push away everything that they are trying to teach them.
Attitude towards money
Teens are light on money. They often take money from mom and dad, and, as a rule, the child's demands are higher than the parents' salaries. On the offer to earn money himself, the teenager makes his demands. He does not agree to work for low wages and will not go where "if only they were paid." But he does this not because he seeks to earn money, just a teenager needs everything at once.
Aggression
Teenagers are often aggressive. They shout at parents, be rude to adults, thus provoking scandals. Parents do not know how to react to such behavior of the child, how to behave correctly with him.
Communication problems
Do not overprotect the child too much. Otherwise, it will be difficult for him to keep the promise with his peers at the level he needs. In addition, a child who was constantly cared for will not be able to grow up independently.
Lost interest in studying
There can be many reasons for this factor. Parents need to react in time and competently conduct a conversation with a teenager, he needs parental support. If the words of mom and dad are not enough, you should contact a specialist.
