As you know, adolescence is a turning point in the life of a child. All parents await him with horror. But it is very difficult for the teenager himself, sometimes not everyone can cope with it. This is followed by tips that will help parents in communicating and finding a common language with their "rebel".
At this age, children assess the life of their parents. Teenagers, especially girls, begin to discuss the behavior, the external image of their teachers, aunts and parents themselves.
Mutual understanding is very important when dealing with your child. In no case should you hide a grudge against your baby. You cannot try to fulfill all the child's desires, but at the same time, you cannot put pressure on his requests. The more you press and "muffle" the child's desires, the more they appear. If the parent does not want to fulfill the child's desire, it is imperative to explain to him why. Children should always feel parental love.
Children value the intelligence, abilities and skills of their parents. Dad knows how to easily fix various things, goes in for sports, and mom knows how to cook deliciously, dresses stylishly, talks about interesting things happening in life. Examples like these have a very positive impact on children, especially girls.
Parents must first of all take care of the physiological and spiritual health of their child. This factor plays a special role in the life of a teenager. It is necessary to teach him the basics of knowledge about the body, how to do physical exercises correctly, instill a love for sports, help to navigate in this area. The main thing is that the child understands that a healthy person who is overwhelmed with physical and spiritual energy will be happy.
Pay attention to how much time you can spend with your child. According to sociological surveys, it was found that most adults devote only 1.5 hours in 7 days to their children. You need to think about what your child is passionate about during his free time.
Try to go on hikes with your children more often, to various events, to the theater, to the cinema. The more pleasant experiences - the better for the child.
Do not give moralizing lectures, anyway no one will listen to them. Teenagers will not be interested in this.
