A long-term relationship between a guy and a girl often leads to acquaintance with the parents. However, you should carefully prepare for this event so that later some unforeseen situations do not arise.
Instructions
Step 1
Remember that it is worth introducing your boyfriend to your mom only when there is a really serious and strong relationship between you. Do not rush to such a decision, but weigh the pros and cons well. If you do understand that it is necessary to do this, carefully ask if your young man would mind getting to know your family members. If he agrees, conduct a similar conversation with your mom and tell her that you have real feelings for the guy and would like his parents to recognize him.
Step 2
Sometimes it happens that mom speaks out against such an acquaintance. Convince her of the sincerity of your relationship and tell her that you just need her mother to understand what kind of person is present in her daughter's life. Explain that you need her support and trust, otherwise you would not dare to experiment like this.
Step 3
If your mother has agreed to meet your lover, tell her a little about his hobbies in advance and that he, on the contrary, does not like it, so that your general conversation does not become unpleasant. You should tell your boyfriend the same about your mom. Maybe she is categorically against smoking guys or gambling addicts, and your lover just has one of these sins. In this case, it should remain your little secret, which will not upset your mom.
Step 4
Choose a day for the upcoming meeting, prepare lunch or dinner yourself, and invite your boyfriend home. Remember to get to know each other in a calm and friendly environment. With mom, you do not need to show your feelings, hug and kiss a guy. The only thing you can do is take his hand.
Step 5
Try to keep the conversation going. Avoid long pauses and silence so that neither boyfriend nor mom starts to feel awkward and embarrassed. Together, you can tell your mom the story of your acquaintance and the beginning of a relationship. Help your loved one talk about his hobbies, just do not over-praise him, otherwise it may look too suspicious.
Step 6
When your boyfriend meets his mother, you do not need to ask his mother questions about whether she liked him or not. It's best if you do this after being alone with her. If your mother is alarmed by something, discuss it with her, and then you can gently hint to the guy that he should either keep quiet about something in front of your parents, or try to change a little in order to fully comply with the ideal.
