When people are together for many years, they often begin to realize that their feelings are fading away. Sometimes this is noticeable only in one partner, and the second is happy with everything, but in any case, in order to maintain the relationship, you must try to renew your feelings.
Instructions
Step 1
Think back to the beginning of your relationship. Try to feel the state of falling in love, because passion is the feeling that needs constant support. Think back to the old days, when you wandered around the city at night holding hands. Visit the first date and your favorite cafes and restaurants. This will help restore your love.
Step 2
Spend more time together. Everyday life contributes to the disappearance of feelings of love and passion, so it is very important to find time to spend time together, because it helps to establish trusting relationships with each other. For example, arrange a small picnic for two.
Step 3
Appreciate your partner. Remember how important your spouse is to you. Think about why you once fell in love with him / her. Your partner will definitely feel this attitude towards himself and will reciprocate, thus, affection for each other will increase.
Step 4
Be proud of each other. Firstly, the success of a spouse largely depends on you, because thanks to your support, he / she managed to reach unprecedented heights. And secondly, respect for the success of a partner will help maintain warm feelings for many years.
Step 5
Make pleasant surprises for your significant other. Just one thought that you've tried so hard to make your soul mate happy will give your spouse a reason to fall in love with you again.
Step 6
Communicate with each other. Keep in mind that most conflicts occur because spouses cannot communicate. Do not try to arrange psychoanalysis sessions from an ordinary conversation, just try to easily and humorously talk about the past day and share your plans for the coming week.
