Mendelssohn's waltz has died down. Time passed and the passions began to subside. Weekdays began. At some point, the accumulated mutual claims, routine and habits can oust love from the heart.
Some couples decide to leave, others to endure, but still others take control of the situation and try to regain freshness of feelings. And it's not so difficult, the main thing is to understand where to start.
Instructions
Step 1
If you are tired of eating in the same place, at the same time, the same dishes, talk to your loved one. Do, if not repair, then rearrange the furniture. Learn to cook new meals. Go to a restaurant.
Step 2
Try to be together more often. Over time, common interests may disappear from you, so they can be created artificially. Join the pool together, or go to the studio for tango lessons. By the way, this is a very passionate dance that will help awaken sensuality. Or do something that both of you find interesting.
Step 3
Talk to each other more often. Discuss not only problems, but also tell what you are thinking at the moment, or what you are dreaming about. Or maybe you are afraid of something? Share and it will bring you closer. You can set up a "letter day" when you leave letters for each other in your purse, pocket, and so on.
Step 4
Give each other pleasant surprises, as you did at the beginning of your relationship. You can have a party or picnic to celebrate your personal Valentine's Day.
Step 5
Touch your loved one more often. Believe me, this will not go unnoticed.
Step 6
Be proud of your partner's accomplishments, whether it's a business success, a well-prepared new dish, or a long scarf knitted for you. Or maybe your soul mate has learned a new language or created a masterpiece with her own hands?
Step 7
Remember the old happy days, how good it was for you together at the very beginning of your life together, those tenderness and passion that overwhelmed you. Try to keep the feeling of warmth and joy between you in the present.
