Things happen in life that are sometimes even scary to think about. For some people, the family is a quiet haven where it is always warm and cozy. But spouses do not always manage to keep their family together.
When a break occurs in a family, it is always sad, but this is life, and you need to treat it with understanding. There are many reasons why people who love break up. For some reason, the people around them most often take the side of their wife, believing that divorce is a very difficult test for a woman. If a man leaves his pregnant wife, then those around him not only take the side of his wife, but also in every possible way call the man a "scoundrel."
Should a man be judged for abandoning a pregnant wife?
Situations are different, and it is not worth considering all men who abandon their pregnant wives as scoundrels. Yes, this situation causes sadness, and someone wants to sympathize with the woman. However, it is worth remembering the feminine nature, because very often the maternal instinct plays a huge role, which overrides all other feelings.
It is not uncommon for a husband to not want a child at a given moment, directly informs his wife about this, but she, contrary to his opinion, decides to conceive a baby. Such a man is sometimes forced to leave his family. After all, a family is mutual respect, when each of the spouses takes into account the opinion of the other, and if opinions differ, they try to find a compromise, and not confront a fact.
During pregnancy, women often behave too emotionally, so some men simply cannot withstand the stressful situation that arises in the family and leave.
There are also situations when discord occurs in the family, and in order to hush it up, the woman decides to "tie" her husband with a child. This is a very naive delusion. Not a single woman has yet been able to keep a man with a common child. In such situations, the woman is primarily to blame, because she knew that now was not the time for a child, but stubbornly carried out her installation - to save the family at all costs.
By doing this, a woman should immediately be ready for the fact that she will have to raise a baby on her own, since a cracked relationship cannot be glued together by the birth of a child.
View from the woman's side
From the point of view of a woman, of course, a man who leaves a pregnant wife is acting like a monster to whom there is nothing sacred. However, if you think about it, is it possible to force a person to love someone through force? If a man does not love a woman, in most cases, he will be indifferent to the child. There will be nothing good in such a family.
Perhaps it would be easier for a woman if a man left her after pregnancy and childbirth in order to avoid unnecessary stress, but men rarely think about it. Of course, a pregnant woman who is abandoned by her husband ceases to respect him as a man, and, most likely, her heart is filled with hatred for him. From her point of view, this is fair, but, unfortunately, you cannot force anyone to love or live with an unloved person. Before you take offense at a guy, think, maybe by his act he saved both of you?
