The initial phase of a relationship always seems magical and wonderful. Everything looks romantic, grievances are quickly forgotten, quarrels end in passionate reconciliation. However, not all relationships are durable. If you want to spot a tipping point and make the right choice, look for symptoms of an impending breakup.
The beginning of a deterioration in relationships between loving people is easy to miss. Only looking back, you understand that it happened gradually. If you don't want to waste time or want to make a difference, watch the signs of an imminent breakup.
The first sign: sarcastic remarks in your direction. Naturally, such "jokes" could have happened before. However, the hormones that rage during the time of falling in love prevented you from reacting sharply to such attacks. Today the situation has changed: the words of a loved one hurt painfully and communication develops into a scandal. Most acute: when he is stinging with you in the presence of friends or family.
The second sign: you hear constant criticism in your direction. His dissatisfaction extends to everything: appearance, character, personal qualities and skills, etc. This means that you and the relationship begin to oppress the man. And even qualitative changes are unlikely to lead to a change in the situation.
Sign the third: you always and in everything turn out to be guilty. Naturally, only in his words. You may not be indebted by doing the same.
The fourth sign: you try to avoid long-term communication. Gone are the sincere conversations and light morning arguments, after dinner you prefer to take a break from the whole world separately. You take this state of affairs calmly, because the less communication, the less chance of a fight.
The fifth sign: unwillingness to go to reconciliation and prolonged quarrels. This behavior is an indicator that feelings are gradually cooling down. None of you want to compromise. Even realizing that you are wrong, you remain unconvinced.
If you feel that something is wrong with your couple, analyze the relationship. Finding even one or two signs - think about it. You can either keep up the good work, or speak frankly and find ways to get through the tough times.
