The politeness of a child must be taught from early childhood. It is better to start doing this from the moment the baby has learned to pronounce individual words. It is very important to show the child an example with your behavior, therefore, along with teaching the child, you will have to work on yourself.
Instructions
Step 1
Many serious skills can be taught to children through play. Politeness is no exception. You can play scenes with the child with elements of the traditions of tea drinking, a romantic date, or just polite communication. During the game, the boy can be taught to respect girls, to give way, and girls can be taught to instill the real features of a little lady.
Step 2
Remember to use polite words when playing, cleaning, or walking. For example, do not say "Collect the toys!", But say "Please collect the toys." If the child hears polite words more often, he will consider this the norm and will not have to give him special lessons.
Step 3
If the moment is missed, and the child is already used to getting his way without polite words, then this situation can also be corrected. Methods for this will require different. Pay attention to your behavior. If the baby requires you to do something in an orderly tone, just do not react to his cues. As soon as you hear polite words, be sure to reciprocate. Clearly indicate to the child the chosen line of your behavior, tell him that you will fulfill requests only when you are properly addressed.
Step 4
Don't combine punishing your child with asking courtesy. If you put the baby in a corner and demand an apology from him in an orderly tone, the child will quickly understand your desires, but in a distorted form. Children should understand the essence of courtesy, not use words to satisfy their needs. For example, if the kid gets tired of standing in the corner, he will understand that it is enough to say "I will no longer" and the punishment will be canceled. The child must understand the meaning of the words and pronounce them with sincere intonation.
Step 5
Show a sense of politeness with your family as an example. Agree with your husband how often you can thank each other in front of the child, say polite words and phrases. If the baby grows up in such an atmosphere, then exemplary behavior will become essential for him.
