The first sexual experience is of great importance for girls, because at the same time they lose their virginity - a rupture of the hymen, located in the vestibule of the vagina, and which is subsequently not restored naturally. For males, the first sexual contact is usually purely psychological.
Instructions
Step 1
Sex drive in boys most often occurs during adolescence and is stronger than in women. This occurs under the influence of male hormones, actively produced by the organs of the genitourinary system. Growing up men begin to "want" their peers, as a result of which, with some emotional trepidation and excitement, they are waiting for their first "real" sexual intercourse (adolescents often relieve sexual tension through masturbation, which is accompanied by ejaculation and orgasm, as during sex).
Step 2
The age at which guys first have sex can vary. Currently, it varies between 15-18 years. Among young people, there is an opinion that the earlier a guy has his first sex, the more it will cause admiration among his peers. Those who have not yet slept with a woman are called virgins, which is often viewed as an offensive nickname.
Step 3
From about 12-13 years old, seminal fluid begins to be produced in the testes of males. In this regard, any unprotected sexual contact with a girl can lead to pregnancy. The simplest and most affordable contraceptive method in this case is a condom that is put on the penis before intercourse begins.
Step 4
Most often, due to inexperience and because of excitement, the first sex for guys is quite fast: an overexcited man quickly reaches ejaculation, not having time to give enough pleasure to both himself and his partner. Some may experience problems in the form of a lack of erection, which again occurs due to intense excitement. In the future, men are more relaxed about sex and become more and more experienced in it. According to the representatives of the stronger sex, the first sex gave them self-confidence, aroused a sense of pride.
Step 5
The first sexual intercourse for a man is usually painless, in contrast to women, who may experience discomfort and pain when the hymen is torn. Some men claim that they felt unpleasant sensations. This is usually due to the fact that the partner's vagina does not release enough lubricant, since she did not experience strong arousal and attraction to a man. Also, the cause of unpleasant or insufficiently vivid sensations can be the use of a condom and the pathological structure of the foreskin of the penis (phimosis).